Engagement is a form for some people, but it is a real "reassurance" for others. When you are engaged, you should buy an engagement gift, or to put it bluntly, a token-this will be discussed later. For two engaged people, in the near future, they should join hands to run a family and create a new life. More specifically, the more basic requirement is that two people should be independent. Giving gifts in return is very popular in our country. Lucky for one in a million, the man gave it to the woman 10. 1 10,000 on the day of engagement, and the woman returned the gift and gave it to 2 100. In addition, the parents of both sides also paid an additional 2,000 yuan for "changing the mouth", which is considered as a son-in-law and a prospective daughter-in-law. Speaking of which, everyone is thinking. The woman took a gift of thirteen thousand dollars, and the man took four thousand one hundred dollars. Who has the woman's money and who has the man's money? Generally speaking, in rural areas, the money given to the man is still kept by his parents. To put it bluntly, it is also a subsidy for gift money. The money given to the woman is small, but it is not small. This money is usually saved. On the wedding day, the bride's family will match a considerable sum of money, spend it with the gift money, buy a dowry and take it to the man's house. But if there is an engagement, there is an engagement. What if the two sides have an engagement? In rural areas, the man's family usually returns most of the money spent by the woman, such as jewelry, money given by the man's family during the Chinese New Year holiday, and this gift. Every time I think about it, I feel that there is no difference between an engagement gift and a general transaction deposit, but the deposit will be returned equally no matter who the defaulting party is. It's more like children playing house, quarreling afterwards and getting back everything they gave to both sides. So I think the engagement gift is ironic, but it's custom.