1 `In fact, you already know that your father has a bad temper. Wouldn't it be difficult to influence your father? Let your father know that your mother is fine at ordinary times and also know the importance of your mother. Let him know that a mother's love and a father's love are indispensable for you and your brother. Of course, don't directly say soft and calm, but miserable.
If you can't do it in person, you can seriously write a sincere letter to your father, communicate with him thoroughly with your heart, and let him know your heart, but remember not to show how much you love your father. No one can stand out from your father.
Besides, you'd better talk to your parents. After all, they are elders and know your parents better than you, but don't let your father know that you made a report and make an agreement with your grandparents in advance.
Mom, I think it should be okay to connect mother and daughter. Just say you dare not ask your father if he is still in a bad mood, and wait until your father is better. Besides, advise your mother not to care too much. Just say that my father usually cares about my mother, and it will be fine in a few days. You all know that the family needs everyone to maintain, so let my mother give you and my brother a father (except domestic violence)
As for the younger brother, it is normal as long as all brothers and sisters understand that there can be no contradictions when they are young, or there must be a child who is naughty because of toys or candy. After all, now you have to coax your brother into obedience. Now his parents are unhappy, and his obedient mother will come back to cook for him. As a sister, he should let this happen even if he is not sensible. You are going to make trouble again. Seeing that you are very sensible, consider yourself an adult. It doesn't hurt to be an adult as soon as possible.
I also want to remind you that you really don't need to be too depressed. Calm down. As long as you are so sensible, your parents have no reason to want anything, because they all love you! Everything has a process, step by step.
I hope you can use your wisdom and kindness to stay with your family and live happily forever! If you really want them to solve this problem by themselves at some point, you must grasp it well and become a party to understand it. ) Good luck!