The whole process of the engagement party

On the day of the engagement/engagement party

1. The man goes to the woman's house with a bow, or sends it directly to the hotel.

2. Newcomers go to the hotel with their parents.

The couple and their parents greeted the guests at the gate of the hotel.

4. The engagement ceremony begins.

5. Both parties read and sign the marriage certificate.

6. The man proposes to the woman (depending on the demand).

7. The couple made a simple speech to express their engagement.

8. Parents of both sides made simple speeches. Express blessings and thank the guests.

9. At the opening ceremony, the newcomers toasted and relatives gave them red envelopes.

10, over, the couple's parents saw them off.

A pre-engagement/engagement party

1. The families of both parties discuss the time and place of engagement.

2. Invite and inform the guests of the time and place of the engagement party.

3. Go to the engagement party in advance to make simple arrangements (if you invite the master of ceremonies and photographers, you need to communicate well).

The man's dowry

Bridal money: it can also be said that it is the bride price money negotiated by both families.

Gifts: Most of them depend on local customs. For example, in some areas, paying attention to six kinds of gifts actually means that couples will live a rich life after marriage.

Jewelry: Generally, there are three kinds of gold and hardware, including rings, earrings and necklaces.

Hardware: on the basis of the three gold, add bracelets and anklets. Days of peace

Banquet money: the money for the engagement party needs to be given to the woman.

Clothes+makeup

List of ceremonies

Letter of appointment: find your favorite style in advance and make it custom-made, sign it on the same day and press your handprint.

Bouquet: Some boys are engaged to propose marriage, and they can also be given to girls as betrothal.

Cake: engagement cake, double layer will do.

Tea set/saucer: Some engagement customs require offering tea to parents. What to put in tea and how many cups to prepare can be decided according to custom.

Layout list

Background board: write "engagement party" and name and date.

Welcome board &; Easel: put it at the door to guide the guests.

Balloon: used for various decorations, such as balloon doors or tied to chairs for decoration.

Happy characters: can be placed on the dowry as decoration.

Table/tablecloth: used for bride price and other items.

Hospitality list: happy events such as candy/cake/cigarette/wine/melon seeds/peanuts.

Red envelopes: You can give them to children.

Clothes+makeup

Clothing: consider a red dress, or a decent skirt+small high heels.

Make-up: Make an elegant and smart makeup, and you can ask someone to do it for you. If you have a hairstyle, the shawl gives people a sense of intimacy, the ponytail gives people a sense of virtue, and short hair gives people a sense of refreshing and capable. According to the dress and the likes of the man's parents, make a suitable appearance.

Couple: Suits and leather shoes can be considered for clothing. On this occasion, boys need to be very formal, clothes should be ironed neatly and shoes should be washed clean.

Make-up: arrange your hair, shave, cut your nails, and don't bring jewelry.

Parents' clothing: mom can consider long skirts or cheongsam, and dad can consider shirts, just a little formal.

Make-up: Mom can paint light make-up, her head is disheveled, and Dad can shave, which is clean and decent.

The woman's engagement return

Men's clothing: suits, shirts, ties, shoes, etc.

Return gift: Most return gifts are subject to local customs.

There is no doubt about the engagement

1. Can we have a wedding without an engagement ceremony?

As long as the families of both sides discuss it well, it is actually possible. In some places, there is no such thing as engagement. If you are really in a hurry or have insufficient budget, you can simplify the engagement ceremony. The two parties had a dinner at home, and the boy gave the girl a bunch of flowers and a diamond ring. The sense of ritual that girls want should be satisfied.

2. When did you get engaged?

There is no specific time for this. It mainly depends on whether two people and their families are ready to get married and find an auspicious day to get engaged. The general engagement date is 65438+ 0-6 months before the wedding.

Do we have to hold an engagement party in the hotel?

If you want to simplify the engagement, the man can send the bride price to the woman's house, and then the two families can have dinner together under the witness of their elders and talk about some engagement and marriage.

If the engagement ceremony is very important, both parties can invite important family members and relatives to the hotel, usually no more than 40 people, even number is better, and then engage in the engagement ceremony.

4. Who will hold the engagement party?

Usually held by the woman. Oh, just give the money for the party to that woman.

5. Do you need a wedding planning company for the engagement party?

The following three practices can be referred to:

(1) Buy things and decorate yourself.

Some hotels provide decoration services, you can ask.

(3) If you have already booked the wedding planning, you can ask whether to provide the engagement party.