These accidents may often become beautiful memories of a woman's life, but they may also become the destruction point of a woman's dream wedding.
Some time ago, there was such an incident on the Internet, which caused a lot of discussion among netizens. A mother-in-law with outstanding face value stole the limelight of her daughter-in-law when attending her son's wedding, which made her daughter-in-law always embarrassed.
The mother-in-law stood with her son and daughter-in-law. In addition to her outstanding temperament, her big red coat is also very delicate. From the matching of clothes to the selection of jewelry, the mother-in-law seems to have achieved the "glamorous pressure" on the bride, as if thinking about how to steal the limelight of her daughter-in-law at the wedding before she took the stage. The daughter-in-law on the side saw her mother-in-law dressed so grandly, and her face was full of serious expressions.
After seeing this photo, many netizens commented that the daughter-in-law's expression is also very real. Who is going to get married when my mother-in-law is dressed like this? If I were a bride, I might always get a bad face.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very delicate, whether at the wedding or after. Just like the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this incident, the change of their relationship may have started from a wedding. Moreover, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is contradictory from the beginning, it will also have many adverse effects in later life.
So what disadvantages will the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law bring to the family?
1. Affect the relationship between husband and wife
Once there is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in a family, men who are both husbands and sons will be in a difficult state. In this process, the relationship between husband and wife will change constantly because of these contradictions. If the man does not handle this contradiction properly, it is easy to create a gap between husband and wife.
2. Affect the mother-child relationship
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also affect the relationship between mother and child in many cases. If the boy is biased in this process, the mother's feelings will be ignored and the mother-child relationship will become alienated. Some mothers even take this situation as a reason for her to complain about her children.
3. Affect family harmony
Many things in the family need women's participation, and if the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are in a state of contradiction for a long time, the communication between family members will be hindered, and many things cannot be agreed. After a long time, no matter between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or between other family members, normal communication and understanding of each other will gradually decrease, and family harmony will become more and more distant.
The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not only the contradiction between two people, but also requires the joint efforts of all family members to deal with such contradictions. Because as a family, only by understanding and caring for each other, the relationship will gradually be harmonious, the family atmosphere will be more warm and harmonious, and the family life will be more beautiful and happy.