It is human nature to want to give the wedding a commemorative meaning. Wedding brings people a sense of ceremony, but the sense of ceremony is not formed by consumption, but by the accumulation of money. The sense of ceremony lies in one's heart.
First, the importance of marriage lies in communication.
In this world, I can meet someone who loves me deeply What is fate? I also hope you can calm down and reconsider this problem. In fact, many problems can be discussed again, instead of saying angry words when I hear that there is no wedding.
We should think about whether there is room for discussion. After all, everyone's economic conditions are limited. The other party just bought a house. You may not be able to pay for the wedding at this time, but you can consider making the wedding smaller. Instead of being ignored when you hear that there is no wedding, after all, everyone has different ideas.
For women, it may pay more attention to the sense of ritual in life, while for men, it may be more pragmatic. They think that the most important thing in life is to live together, so they may not pay so much attention to some sense of ceremony.
So we should express our thoughts, tell each other what we really think, and then discuss it. In fact, everything is negotiable.
Second, life needs a sense of ceremony, but what matters is people's hearts.
Most women want to have a grand wedding. After all, they only have one wedding in their life. They want to be the most beautiful bride in the world and marry the person they love most.
For many women, the grander the wedding, the happier they will feel. She will feel that the more the other person values herself, which is one of the ways for them to feel safe.
But I think it is more important to have people's hearts than a sense of ceremony. After all, the sense of ceremony can be piled up with money, but the heart is hard. It is very important whether a person is attentive or not. It's not necessarily a grand wedding, but it's ok to have a wedding with your heart. This is also very ceremonial and easy to be tempted.
Calm down and think about it. What is the most important thing for you in this relationship? Can two people face the difficulties of life together, grow old together, or have a decent wedding?
Third, the wedding is only the beginning of marriage, and the ideal wedding is based on the actual situation.
Life needs a sense of ceremony, which is undoubtedly very important. Especially in the wedding ceremony, the sense of ceremony can make two people move towards a new life better.
If you have the financial conditions, of course, you should hold a grand and unforgettable wedding.
But if you don't have that condition, you can also hold a wedding that is neither luxurious nor extravagant, but makes the woman very satisfied. It is also a way to find a romantic place where two people promise each other to grow old together.
And now many young people are starting to travel to get married, which is actually a very good way to get married.
What kind of conditions, what kind of things to do, the wedding should be decided according to the actual situation of the family, not compared with the people around you. Many times, compared with people around you, sticking to something meaningless will run counter to the ultimate intention.
What is important in marriage is the communication between two people. You can't just say angry words. Don't use a sense of ceremony to prove your heart. The end result may break a person's heart.