In different areas, the period of mourning is very different. Usually seven days is a day of mourning. During these seven days, no social activities and no vegetarian food are allowed. Or July 49 is a mourning period. In addition, this day also depends on the actual situation at home.

During my stay in Dai Xiao, I can't attend the wedding or enter other people's new homes. Full of filial piety. My family sent a sacrifice. After paying homage to the grave, my relatives burned the spirit house to show filial piety.

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After the death of filial piety, the old customs respected relatives and stopped entertainment and communication before serving, expressing condolences. Confucius believed that mourning for three years was not a requirement of propriety, but a requirement of personal kindness.

A gentleman's mood is sad when his parents die, but eating delicious food and wearing gorgeous clothes is the pursuit of happiness, which is contradictory to his sad mood. Therefore, the pursuit of happiness in mourning will not be peaceful. Only when he is crying and sad will his heart be peaceful and he can satisfy happiness.