One, three views are consistent. This is the most important thing, because two people have to live a lifetime. If you have different ideas, you will inevitably quarrel and disagree in the future, which will not only affect your mood, but I also want to say, can you live this life?
Second, whether the other person's personality can be accepted by him.
If both of them have good personalities, that's good, and they can live with Mei Mei in the future. But there are always some people with bad personalities, such as me, who lose their temper easily. My husband knows my personality and always tolerates me, so now I always let myself converge and not let him down.
Third, the other party's sense of responsibility.
Both men and women are family members, and both have the responsibility to maintain the family and make it better. This man should have a certain sense of responsibility and self-motivation. Even if the current economic situation is not ideal, as long as two people work together, there will be bread. The woman should also support the man, and she can't complain often after marriage, which will make the man lose his fighting spirit.
Fourth, his parents and family.
This mainly depends on the man's family and parents, because the woman mainly faces the man's parents after marriage, and even lives with the man's parents, so it is also very important to get along well. If the man's parents are easygoing, business-oriented, reasonable, have a good personality and a good family atmosphere, congratulations, you may have met a good husband's family.
Fifth, the most important thing is to marry love.
Two people together, like each other, can live happily together, can stay comfortably together, can grow up together, can join hands to grow old together, is the most beautiful couple.