The "pre-purchase" gifts for the man are: two pairs of tea and soup (commonly known as crystal sugar for tea and noodles for soup, each pair), a piece of cake (a unique rectangular cake in Zhangping, made of flour, glutinous rice flour and other ingredients, each with six packs, commonly known as "six packs of cakes") and a catty of peach cake (peach cake). The bride price in some areas of Fujian is even, not even. Yongding's gifts are five colors, usually pork, beef, noodles, wine and fish. Each color is 3 kg, 5 kg and 9 kg, and every order can be made. As for the amount of deposit at the time of engagement, there are also double orders in Fujian, and there are no certain regulations.

From engagement to ancient "Naji", "Zheng Na" and "invitation", it is the beginning of a happy event. From this time until the marriage 1, both men and women and their relatives are not allowed to be involved in the murder case, lest "red and white" is not conducive to happiness. Conventions include the following conventions:

1. Appointment

Also known as "excessive determination", "food determination", "determination", "Wen determination" or "delivery". Accompanied by the matchmaker, the elders of men and women will send the agreed gifts to the woman's house as a fixed date on the selected auspicious day. Gifts 1 are usually cloth, incense sticks, rock sugar, noodles, orange cakes, betel nuts, and? N leaves, lotus seeds, pork, gift cakes, peanut candy, tobacco and alcohol, and ring jewelry often form one or two colors.

The woman's house will receive the man's guests with rock sugar tea and sugar glutinous rice porridge, and the woman to be married will go to the hall to offer sweet tea. Guests should give red envelopes as "tea pressing" gifts when they accept sweet tea. The woman's parents put the ring given by the man on the finger of the woman to be married, and the "food-fixing" ceremony was completed.

When the man and the guest leave, the woman should return gifts such as towels (two towels are connected from 1). At the same time, both men and women should send cakes, candy and other gifts to relatives and friends to show their affirmation of marriage.

Step 2 hire

Also known as "promotion" or "distribution decision". The man will send the agreed bride price to the woman's house on the selected auspicious day. The bride price emphasizes pairing, including the number of people who send bride price is even. Red paper should be pasted on the cages and poles of bride price, and the male elders should pick the front 1 pole.

Bridal gifts include wedding documents, gold and silk offerings, engagement gifts, jewelry, cloth, dresses, gift cakes, whole pigs, wine, chickens and ducks, and? Sugar, red jiaozi and other cakes. Among them, gift cake? The amount of sugar and cake should be decided by the woman to ensure that it is enough to be distributed to her relatives, friends and neighbors. In addition, each household should give 1 bowl of red glutinous rice balls. In some places, only wedding documents, gold, silk, sacrifices and other things are sent when recruiting people, and the agreed gifts such as dresses are sent separately by the man.