On the wedding day, marriage is often filled with happiness and festive atmosphere. There are many traditional customs in China, and there are often many taboos on this festive day. Let's take a look at the taboos and related matters on the wedding day.
Taboos on the wedding day 1 1. What are the taboos on the wedding day?
(1) avoid getting married in the ghost month, that is, in July of the lunar calendar.
(2) avoid getting married in June of the lunar calendar, that is, being a wife for half a month.
(3) When installing the bed, put the bed in the correct position and avoid facing the sharp corner of the desk closet or any object.
(4) On the day of engagement, no matter how hot the weather is, all the people who are engaged are not allowed to fan their fans, otherwise it means breaking up.
(5) The clothes and dresses worn by the bride on the wedding day should not have pockets, so as not to take away the wealth of her family.
(6) When a bride becomes a monk, the more she cries, the better. The more she cried, the less she cried.
(7) On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, all aunts should avoid seeing each other off, because "aunt" is homophonic with "orphan" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweep", which is unlucky.
(8) On the way to the wedding, if you meet another wedding motorcade, this is called "beaming", which will offset the blessing of the other party, so it is necessary for the matchmakers of both sides to set off firecrackers or exchange flowers to resolve it.
(9) On the wedding day, no one is allowed to touch the new bed until going to bed at night, and the bride is not allowed to touch the bed that day.
(10) Because children cry easily, they should be forbidden to enter the wedding auditorium, because it is unlucky to cry in the auditorium.
(1 1) When the bride enters the man's house, she should avoid stepping on the threshold and cross it.
(12) People or widows who belong to the "tiger" in the zodiac are not allowed to watch the ceremony or enter the new house.
The bride should be careful not to step on the groom's shoes, which will make her feel ashamed of her husband.
(14) On Mothering Day, newlyweds must leave their parents' home before sunset. They must not spend the night at their parents' house. In case you can't go home for special reasons, the husband and wife should sleep separately to avoid bumping into their parents' house and making them unlucky.
Second, matters needing attention on the wedding day
1, Bride's Breakfast: As a bride, you may have everything arranged by others. This is the most lost day of your life. In order to make the whole wedding go on normally, you should make everyone feel happy, satisfied and proud. There will be bouts of blank and tension in your heart, and you may have a bad appetite, but remember that breakfast can't be omitted.
2. Bride's shoes: Generally, the bride will choose some shoes that match the wedding dress before getting married. If you are a careful bride, you will definitely buy shoes that match your dress. Let me give you a hint. When you buy shoes, you should not only pay attention to style and color, but also pay attention to comfort. Because the bride is always the protagonist on the wedding day, you need to stand with the guests for a long time, so don't forget to bring two pairs of shoes, one is to match your dress, and the other is to be comfortable as casual shoes when changing clothes.
3. Bride red envelopes: Brides in China will encounter red envelopes when they get married. Being a bride for the first time may receive red envelopes from various relatives and friends. These red envelopes should be collected and properly preserved. Because often red envelopes will write some blessing words, and have a clear name and amount, so don't scribble. At the same time, some brides will also give some red envelopes to your junior guests. These red envelopes should be wrapped in advance according to the number of guests who may be present, and given to the bride by a special person and distributed to them. A red envelope is something that can never be ignored, and the distance of the relationship it contains is included here.
Third, how to choose the best man and maid of honor
1, the standard of height
The height of the bridesmaid should not be too different from that of the bride.
2, the standard of body shape
The figure of the best man and bridesmaid should be similar to that of the new couple. Too heavy or too light will also attract the attention of guests.
3, clothing standards
The bridesmaid's clothes should not be too bright, too fancy will also make the guests compare with the newcomers, causing dazzling and posing as the host. The general principle of dress is to highlight the wedding.
4, code of conduct
Bridesmaids should be the best friends of the newlyweds in their choices, and their manners should reflect the cultural quality of the newlyweds. Therefore, new couples should pay attention to this problem when choosing the best man and bridesmaid. Because on the wedding day, many things of the newlyweds need them to take care of, and their behavior should reflect the level of the newlyweds. And those friends who are willing to do anything for their buddies after drinking, it is best to arrange for them to drink.
Taboos on the wedding day 2 What are the precautions for the bride to get married and go out?
First of all, this dress has no pockets.
When getting married, every bride will put on her carefully prepared wedding dress. However, when the bride gets married and goes out, the wedding dress she wears must not have pockets. Because it is said that there are pockets in the bride's wedding dress that will take away her family's wealth.
Second, don't fan.
No one can bring a fan at the wedding, and the bride is no exception. Because the fan, as its name implies, means to break up. Therefore, the bride must not bring fans for her own happiness, especially when going out.
Third, the bride wants to cry.
When the bride leaves home, she will feel more or less sad. So the bride can cry loudly when she gets married and goes out. The sadder the better. Because there is a folk saying that the bride doesn't cry or send her hair, and the more she cries, the more she cries.
Fourth, the aunt avoided.
When the bride gets married and goes out, her aunt and sister-in-law can't go to see her off. Because aunt's homonym is "loneliness" and sister-in-law's homonym is "sweeping the floor", these two relatives had better avoid it when the bride goes out.
5. Don't say goodbye.
When the bride gets married and goes out, she must not say goodbye to them, including her parents. Because goodbye can easily lead to emotional disharmony between new couples and the possibility of remarriage.
Other pressures of the bride's marriage
First, cross the threshold
When the bride arrives at the man's house, remember: be sure to walk into the man's house with your feet up, and never walk into the man's house with your feet up.
Second, don't lie in bed before the wedding.
Although the wedding is complicated, brides must remember that even if they are almost exhausted, they can't lie in their wedding beds before the wedding is over. Because the moral of going to bed early and getting up early is that you will be ill in bed all year round.
Taboos on the wedding day 3 Taboos on the wedding night What should I pay attention to on the wedding day?
There is a traditional custom of loading beds. When installing the bed, be sure to put the bed in a straight position to avoid any sharp objects pointing at the bed.
6. Engagement After everyone has had an engagement party, everyone can't say goodbye, which means remarriage.
7. On the formal wedding day, the bride's clothes can't have pockets, which is to avoid taking away her family's wealth.
8. On the bride's wedding day, a monk must marry in tears. The more she cries, the better.
What should I pay attention to on the wedding day?
9. When a bride leaves her family, she should avoid being an aunt, because "aunt" is homophonic with "orphan" and "sister-in-law" is homophonic with "sweep", which are all unlucky words.
10. If many people get married that day, if the wedding car meets other wedding teams on the way, it will offset the blessings of both sides, so both sides should set off firecrackers or exchange flowers with the matchmaker to resolve it.
1 1. On the wedding day, the bride should not step on the threshold when talking about the groom's house, but must cross it.
12. On the wedding day, the couple's new bed shall not be released by anyone, nor shall it be released today or the next day.
What should I pay attention to on the wedding day?
13. On the wedding day, the bride can't lie down before going to bed, otherwise it means "being ill in bed", which is very unlucky.
14, the zodiac belongs to the tiger, because "tiger" and "bitterness" have been agreed, it is not appropriate to observe the ceremony and enter the new house.
15, avoid using flowers in the auditorium, because flowers are easy to wither, and only lotus flowers and pomegranate flowers are not taboo.
16, the bride should not step on the groom's shoes because she is ashamed of her husband.