Not all good relationships will have good results. People who once loved each other may be strangers, and former lovers may be divorced. Since she is an ex-husband, it means that the relationship between the two people has become a thing of the past. Seeing that your ex-husband is engaged and has a new love, it's hard for you to hold back your tears, because you haven't pulled away from this relationship and are unwilling to accept the cruel fact of divorcing your ex-husband. But the past has happened. If you want to make your future life better, you must learn to let go of the past.

First, we must keep an optimistic attitude, even if we lose our former lover, don't be disappointed in the future.

It is very sad to lose the person you love, but don't give up your future completely because of this sad thing, or keep a positive and optimistic attitude and believe that you can meet good people and new happiness in the future. I believe that time can heal all wounds. Even if I haven't let go of this relationship yet, as long as the time is long enough, I will eventually let go of that relationship and get my real happiness.

Second, divert your attention and do more meaningful things.

When you see your ex-husband engaged, you will cry, which shows that your attention is still on your ex-husband. If you want to let go of this relationship, you must learn to divert your attention. The world is beautiful and there are many things to do. You don't have to cry for your last relationship. You can sing and dance, draw pictures, travel and go to strange places, so that you can find the beauty in life and forget the unhappy things before. After being lovelorn, do more meaningful things to enrich your life, and don't feel sorry for the lost feelings.

Third, believe in yourself and don't deny yourself because of a failed marriage.

Even if you lose someone you once loved, you still have to believe that you are still worthy of being loved. Don't deny yourself easily because of your previous failed marriage. After being lovelorn, you can suffer, but you can't feel inferior. Just because your ex-husband left you doesn't mean you're not good enough. Maybe it's just that you two are not suitable. Always believe that there must be someone suitable for you in this world. When you meet that person, the other person will treat you as a treasure. Now why do you deny yourself for a lost relationship?

Fourth, learn to cherish and cherish all the beauty you encounter.

Summarizing the experience of the last failed marriage, we should learn to cherish it. You know, not everything can last forever. If you want to make your feelings last forever, you must learn to cherish and cherish all the good things you encounter. If you don't cherish it now, it won't help to regret it after you lose it.

It's normal to lose someone you really love and see that someone you really love will soon belong to another person, but you should always be rational, don't do impulsive things just because you are sad, and adjust your mentality so as to get out of the last failed relationship as soon as possible.