First, how to break off an engagement:
1, both parties negotiate.
(1) Since we have decided to break off the marriage relationship, we should communicate and negotiate with both parties. If you really don't like it, you should also clearly express your feelings with others to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings and conflicts.
(2) If both parties can negotiate a refund, both parties will take back all the gifts they sent. If the banquet costs half, this is the best solution.
2. The matchmaker stepped in
(1) Newcomers who don't know what to do can seek the help of the matchmaker. Because they have encountered many such things, they are relatively experienced and can handle them in the best way.
(2) Regarding the bride price and other issues, the couple can also communicate with the matchmaker, even if they spend a little more money. After all, the wedding event is more important than this, as long as it can be handled well.
3, straightforward
(1) If it is the man's fault that makes you want to break off your marriage, then you can directly return what he gave you to show your attitude of breaking off your marriage.
(2) If you just think that the two are not suitable, you should adopt the first two ways to solve it. Everything is about your marriage. Don't be too patient before you get married.
Second, what is the reason for the woman's divorce?
1, expressed directly
It will be faster to choose direct expression. If you procrastinate, you will show your hesitation and let the other party feel that there is room for manoeuvre. If you really don't like it, you can tell the other person what you are not satisfied with, which will make the discussion more direct.
Step 2 belittle yourself
Since it is your own request to break off the marriage, you can also find a corresponding excuse and gently inform the other party. The woman can euphemistically tell the other party that she wants to break off the marriage relationship by belittling herself and feeling that she is not worthy of the other party, so that the other party can accept it more easily.
Step 3 refund money
If you want a divorce, it is certain to return the other party's money. You can give more money to the other party at an appropriate time to show your determination to break off your marriage and your sorry mood, so that the other party can accept it better.
Harmony is the most important thing.
Both parties can dissolve the marriage through consultation. If both sides are not satisfied, they can negotiate better. After all, marriage is very important. You can't marry someone you don't like.
Summary:
The one who wants to break off the marriage must choose a good way, and don't make both parties unhappy, otherwise it will not only ruin his reputation, but also waste money. If you choose to break off your marriage, you must return the other person's money, so that you can get even.