What should I pay attention to when attending a wedding? 1. Never upstage the bride and groom.
At the wedding, the couple must be the focus of the audience and the undisputed protagonist. No matter how goddess or goddess you are, don't steal a play at someone else's wedding, unless you want to smash a venue, then feel free!
Girls should pay special attention. Although it is said that women wearing wedding dresses are the most beautiful, we should also look at them dialectically, especially photographers in photo studios and wedding dress sellers. The salesperson is saying. Not every bride is born beautiful. Objectively speaking, in most weddings, there are some girls who are more beautiful than the bride.
Face is innate, but dressing can be controlled the day after tomorrow. As a supporting role in the wedding, please remember that girls should never wear topless clothes or be too ostentatious when attending the wedding. This is not a red carpet show, nor is it the eyes of the beauty judges. You are going to send blessings, not to trouble the bride.
Although weddings are divided into Chinese and western styles now, you must not wear white, light beige and big red clothes unless the bride herself has special requirements for you. !
The same is true for male guests. Even if you are angry with Daniel Wu and Louis Koo, please keep a low profile on this occasion. Don't wear hundreds of thousands of suits, a Swiss watch and a 30-pound gold chain to compete for the "best actor". Generally speaking, in the group of friends and relatives, men are the majority. As long as you are not Qiao Feng, you'd better stay out of trouble.
Don't dress too casually.
It is emphasized above that people should not steal the limelight of newcomers when dressing up, but if they dress up as beggars' eight bags of disciples, they may be kicked out by others.
After all, the wedding is a major event in life, and attending the wedding should be elegant and formal, which is also the most basic respect for the wedding host. For men, it is relatively simple to wear. Generally, suits, shirts, trousers, ties and leather shoes can be properly matched.
For girls, there are other requirements besides not stealing the bride's limelight. But don't scratch your head, girls. In fact, simplicity comes first. In terms of clothing, you usually choose a relatively small and chic dress or suit. Accessories, it is best to choose simple structure, simple and elegant tone; In addition, unless you have a very strong height advantage, choose high heels to show the elegance of women.
Write your name and greetings on the red envelope.
On the wedding day, there will be many relatives and friends to attend, and there will be many red envelopes, which will only be opened when the newlyweds go home at night. So be sure to write your name on the red envelope. If you forget to write, new people will never remember which one you wrote. In addition to the name, the blessing to the couple should also be written on the red envelope.
Generally, you can give a red envelope when you see the groom. If you are a friend of the bride or groom, you can also give it to them directly or send it to the reception desk.
4. Don't comment on the bride or groom casually.
Commenting on others in private is a taboo in life, especially attending weddings. Never comment on the bride or groom in front of others. After all, the wedding is a public place, and you don't necessarily know everyone around you. You can't be sure which joke you tell will be heard by others and passed on to the groom or bride, which will have a bad influence or mood on the couple. It is estimated that you will be permanently excluded from the friends list, which is not worth the loss.
If you really can't hold back, remember that you can only praise them and praise them with your life.
When toasting, don't ramble.
The toast at the wedding banquet should not last more than 3 minutes, so avoid rambling. When making a toast, in order to attract others' attention, you can say an opening sentence, such as "Ladies and gentlemen, I propose a toast to Mr. XXX".
The content of the toast can express the concern and goodwill for the couple, and also express their feelings, but we should avoid being too excited and incoherent. You can also be humorous, but you should also pay attention to your discretion.
6. Don't make too many jokes in the bridal chamber.
Now many weddings are simplified, and having a bridal chamber is not an essential part. Therefore, when many friends attended the wedding, they began to play tricks on the two newcomers at the banquet.
Some funny and interesting games really help to push the atmosphere of the wedding banquet to a climax, and the newlyweds will willingly agree to some unreasonable demands of the guests. But don't go too far.
7. You can leave the wedding without saying hello.
In the face of many taboos, I can finally relax! You don't have to say hello to the couple when you leave the wedding. Because at the wedding banquet, the newlyweds have to meet many guests. If you take the liberty of asking to leave early, the newlyweds will be embarrassed and easily affect the wedding reception process.