Fuqing's custom is to pay half of the engagement fee first, then give gift packages to the relatives of the woman, including candy and cigarettes for each family, and then give red envelopes to her grandparents. I also want to buy an engagement ring. The man's parents want to give the woman a pair of jewelry, and the woman's parents want a necklace or ring (the above jewelry depends on personal family conditions), and then an engagement wine is set at night, and the parents-in-law put an engagement ring on the engaged couple. That's about it.