Perhaps because of depression, Gong Li continued to tell me all kinds of experiences in the past three years. Gong Li was born in poverty. At the beginning, his parents spent all their savings for his education. After graduating from college, he found a good job as he wished. At first, because I didn't know how to be tactful, I was often criticized by leaders and squeezed out by colleagues. Later, Gong Li also understood what was going on, and because he really had the ability, he was quickly appreciated by the leaders and got a promotion opportunity. His salary has doubled and he is over 60.
At that time, two people were in a tepid state. They talked for half a year and their relationship was confirmed. It took half a year to get to know each other better, and both of them are not young, so it didn't take long to get ready to get married. When Gong Li brought his parents from the countryside, the attitude of his wife's family was obviously a little disgusted, but they didn't show it. At that time, Gong Li didn't think much. Later, Gong Li and his wife held a wedding. Gong Li wants his parents to stay in this city for a few more days, but his parents insist on going back to their hometown. When he left, his parents told him, "Son, as long as you live well, we will be relieved."
Later, his wife's family often visited them and sometimes lived here, especially Gong Li's brother-in-law. Because he works in the city, he often eats and drinks at Gong Li's house, and even his wife cleans his room. Once Gong Li went to his house and was sobbed as soon as he entered the room. The floor was covered with his brother's smelly socks and change of clothes. Seeing the scene before him, Gong Li was a little angry. When my brother-in-law came back, Gong Li began to educate him. Before saying a few words, his wife came out and said, "What are you doing? You are not allowed to clean the house. Besides, he is the only male in our family, and my parents are unwilling to say anything about him, let alone you. " After listening to his wife's excuse, Gong Li was very wronged.
Later, a friend borrowed money from Gong Li for an emergency. Gong Li prepared to give money to his friend, only to find that the amount in the passbook was wrong. When his wife asked, she said that she took 6.5438+10,000 yuan to help her brother buy a car. Gong Li was a little angry and said, "Why didn't you discuss this with me?" His wife replied, "we are both married, and I can't spend all the money at home." Besides, I gave it to my brother. Looking at his wife, Gong Li didn't know what to say. Later, his wife sent money home one after another. Three years later, she sent home 200,000 yuan, which made Gong Li more and more angry. Finally, Gong Li asked his wife for a divorce. Her wife said with a grain of salt, "I give her some money, and you're getting a divorce?" Gong Li said angrily, "After three years of marriage, you gave 200,000 yuan, and I'm not allowed to ask any questions. Have you ever thought about how I feel? "The next day, two people went through the divorce formalities.
After reading Gong Li's story, I believe many people will feel excited. Gong Li's experience seems to be a microcosm of himself. Xiao Qiang has to say that there are many people like Gong Li's wife in real life. They were indoctrinated by their parents with the idea that they were bent on helping their parents, but forgot that they were married. As the saying goes, "a small family is not rich, everyone can be rich", and for reasonable parents, finally, Xiao Qiang advised those married ladies not to stop you from helping their parents, to truly achieve the principle of "helping the poor", and to remember one sentence: "Married daughters, spilled water", don't think about their parents and ignore important in-laws.