Boyfriends and girlfriends have been dating for many years and don't want to get married. After breaking up, they soon got a new partner to get married. As experienced people, what they want to say is that they have been married for many years, or that they have not yet entered each other's hearts. Their communication feelings are not deep. They can only say that they are deeper than friendship and worse than love. At best, they are bosom friends, not bosom friends. Their communication remains at the same level, and if they don't advance, they will retreat. In the eyes of people around you. But I don't want to get married. Maybe it really is what people say. Distance produces beauty, but if you feel too familiar, you will have no curiosity. Coupled with aesthetic fatigue, everyone has a habit. The more you form a habit, the more you will let it go. It doesn't matter whether they are married or not. Time will change its original appearance, and so will love. There will inevitably be contradictions. When faced with an unsolvable emotional bottleneck, at this time, a person will be impatient and easily lead to breakup. If you have a new partner, if you can keep staring, you will experience feelings, be tired, want to find a home, and give a word to your past love. People are always interested in unknown people and things, and have the desire to explore and conquer, so counterexamples will soon enter the marriage hall!

In fact, this problem can be divided into two parts: one is why we haven't been married for a long time. The second is why did you get married soon after breaking up?

Feelings have a period of fatigue. If a relationship lasts for a long time, it will be boring. In addition, the other party has some obvious shortcomings, and the hard-earned feelings will become chicken ribs-it is a pity to leave it tasteless and abandon it. I want to let go and start a new life, but I can't let go, I can't let go. This led to a long-term love, but never married. But as long as there is an opportunity, this dispensable intimacy will disappear. To put it bluntly, this breakup is not sudden, but waiting. Maybe both sides are waiting for this day.

After ending a relationship, most people will automatically have some tendencies when choosing a second partner, and will automatically screen out people who have the same shortcomings as their predecessors. As a result, his next partner has such a characteristic: he has similar advantages to his predecessor, but cleverly avoids the shortcomings of his predecessor. He has a Qvanxian Zhang face, a charming part of his predecessor, and even got rid of his own shortcomings. This feeling of being familiar with strangers is simply perfect. So he can find this substitute in a short time, and the answer to the second question comes out.

In addition, there is another situation, which is the flash marriage after breaking up caused by rebellious psychology. The party who failed in the first relationship, or the party who didn't want to break up so much, is extremely normal if he meets someone who takes care of him quickly after breaking up and enters the marriage hall quickly. However, we must all understand that decisions made in anger are still doomed to failure.

Finally, Xiaoqing wants to tell everyone that the road to love must be full of bumps, but in any case, as long as both sides still have emotional foundation and have not done anything that violates the bottom line, don't give up lightly, let alone break the jar and break it. As long as two people are willing to be together and work hard, there will be a bright future!

Finally, I left you a small test to test what happiness you want.

The topic is this: When you are with your lover, what do you think is the happiest state?

A, the moment you receive a beloved gift from your lover.

B snuggle up to your lover, listen to music in his arms and talk to each other.

C. after making out with your lover, lie in bed and relive the enthusiasm just now.

D, the lover says to you: "I love you. Hold you tight in my arms.