0 1, the amount of bride price is not important, what is important is that people can see the attitude and sincerity. Marrying a wife is something that most men have to experience, and before getting married, there must be banquets, parent-teacher conferences and bride price. Among them, the bride price is the most troublesome and difficult to solve. In many areas, the amount of bride price is as high as hundreds of thousands, which does not include the extra houses and cars. It can be said that getting married once will cost ordinary people half their life savings. So many people jump out and say that they are marrying their daughters instead of selling them. Who can afford such a high price? Indeed, many parents will deliberately ask for a high bride price, and then they will not return their daughters in full.
However, the bride price itself is a manifestation of sincerity and attitude. Most parents don't want to marry off their daughters? Make money? I just want to see my daughter's married family pay attention to her. You try your best to give a similar bride price to show your attitude and sincerity in marrying a wife. There is nothing wrong with it. To my disgust, some men always want to marry their wives without spending money and give them to you with their daughters who have been raised for more than 20 years? That kind of attitude and sincerity should be what the woman's parents have always felt.
02. Give only advocacy, not coercion. It is said that the bride price is 10,000, the wedding car does not exceed 6, and the wedding banquet does not exceed 10 table. This is advocacy, not coercion, mainly depending on personal wishes. If you are well-off and want to save face, you can spend more money on this matter; If your family is average, then hold it as agreed by both parties. It all depends on your own preferences. I didn't say that you broke the rules because you paid too much bride price, nor did I say that you should be spit out if you paid too little. It's all up to you!
In fact, the bride price is not that important. If you think the woman's price is too high, you can negotiate. If you can't negotiate, it won't be solved. Originally, two newlyweds got married, and they had to spend all their savings and even borrow money to get married. So, what about the future life? So, don't take the bride price too seriously. People who really want to get married will always think of the right way.