2. Handkerchiefs refer to bride price. Maybe, it depends on your family condition and the woman's condition. If your family conditions are good, I'm sure the woman needs more. If the woman's family conditions are good, she should not care about this. Say something casually. If you two have a good relationship, you should be able to discuss it, because I don't approve of accepting bride price, which is a bit like doing business.
This is very important. What does this mean? Do you want to buy something for your partner or go to their home? If it is not for marriage, of course, it can't be too shabby. Buy expensive ones, and of course buy practical ones. Don't let others see that you are the kind of person who spends money like water. Smoking and drinking at home, we have to buy everything, including father-in-law, mother-in-law, sister-in-law and brother-in-law.
Of course, three gold medals cost thousands of dollars.