Emotion is of course important, because the existence of custom itself serves people and is the expression of emotion. Many young people in modern times choose to go directly to the civil affairs bureau to get a marriage certificate after getting together. Whether to hold a wedding depends on personal choice. Most young people choose to hold grand ceremonies, which may be caused by personal and family preferences. Because I am lively, I choose to abide by this custom. Some young people think that getting married is their own business. They give up holding weddings, and some people don't even take wedding photos. Most of them follow the crowd and just hold weddings according to custom. Families in Guigang get along well and have a harmonious atmosphere. It seems that they just follow the custom step by step and let their unmarried sister go upstairs to escape. In fact, everyone in the family can listen to my sister's thoughts. If she wants to attend the wedding, there is no need to avoid it.

Custom itself serves human beings.

The custom of holding a wedding itself is to share one's happiness with friends and relatives. Newcomers will express their sincere feelings on the spot, and relatives will also send blessings. Although the local custom in Guigang requires unmarried sisters to avoid their sister's wedding, everyone's wedding is only once. If the sister really wants to witness the sister's wedding and the sister wants her to be there, there is no need to abide by this custom.

Traditional customs should change with the different lifestyles of modern people.

Because the other half is in a hurry, the bride or groom may finish their wedding alone; Some young people just celebrate their marriage by traveling; Modern people don't even wear traditional clothes when getting married. With the constant change of lifestyle and different personal preferences, many people are choosing to abide by or give up traditional customs. The birth of custom itself is to serve mankind. It may be just a form of expressing feelings, which can be completely changed according to people's needs.

Traditional customs are constantly changing with the changes of people's modern ways. People's feelings are more important than rigid customs.