1. When getting married, the man usually holds the wedding reception first.
Generally speaking, the most common situation on the wedding day is that the man's family holds a wedding banquet first, and the bride returns to China three days later, and then the woman's family holds a return banquet and invites relatives and friends to attend. When Chen Xiaohe got married in Michelle Chen, she now held a wedding banquet in mainland China, and then held a general wedding banquet in Taiwan Province Province.
2. The woman can also hold a wedding reception first.
In some places, on the wedding day, the man will come to pick up relatives, and before the woman gets married, she will invite relatives and friends to hold a wedding reception. In this case, the woman will hold a wedding reception first. It's also called marriage. In some places in Henan province, the woman holds the wedding banquet first, and the man holds the banquet another day.
3, the order of the wedding, the couple need to negotiate.
In fact, the order of the wedding banquet is not too particular, and there is no need to be too taboo. Newcomers can negotiate the wedding banquet order according to local customs and actual conditions.
Second, how to operate the wedding in the two places?
1, according to the custom, get married first and then get married.
Generally speaking, the custom in China is to marry first and then marry, so the man should go to the woman's house to hold a drink first. Of course, because of the long journey, it is impossible to take most of the troops, and there is less excitement. After drinking the wine, the woman stays in the hotel where the man is, waiting for the man to get married. The woman naturally can't have many people to accompany her to the wedding.
2. Grasp the time
According to the folk custom in China, the wedding date is carefully chosen, and it is sometimes difficult for the couple who hold the wedding in the same place to coordinate well, not to mention that the distance between the two places is far, and it is necessary to start coordination long in advance.
Step 3 entertain friends and family
Newlyweds who are married in different places must only invite them separately when they entertain their relatives and friends. They can only tell their relatives and friends that I am married, and they can't integrate their lover into the circle of relatives and friends. As for their close relatives, couples with good economic conditions can arrange their relatives to attend the wedding in each other's hometown, but it is impossible to walk around each other after marriage.