I can only say that popular customs, as to whether the woman's family has other requirements, are still under discussion! First: engagement gift 8800 Second: wedding gift 1 1000 (for life) 14000 (all the best) 18000 (all the best) 2 1000 (all the best) For example:/. Third, the cornucopia is a part of the amount proposed by the woman's family (half of them are unmarried in Xinxiang), generally around 2000. Fourth, ask the man's family to make quilts and sheets (basically bought now), televisions, cars (at least electric cars), computers, furniture, gold (rings, necklaces, earrings) and so on! Fifth: the house (if the woman's parents don't pay attention to this, it can be ignored, after all, it is not easy to buy a house), but the woman's family proposes to buy the best, and the family is also good for her daughter not to sleep! Generally require a house! Sixth: on the wedding day, arrange the woman's home (home) and dowry, and give red envelopes to those who hang the door curtain! This is the list given to you by the woman's family. You can't give it blindly. Seventh, you must remember that the woman's house is as big as the sky on the wedding day. Laugh even if you have a lot of dissatisfaction or unhappiness in your heart. Even if you go to a hotel to get married, you can't be angry and laugh! Give a red envelope when you get married! (This can also be discussed with the woman's family. For example, if 200 is suitable, then divide it into several red envelopes, 100, 50 and 10 20. The more points, the more people usually want. When the bride comes out with you, don't leave, just take a family photo with her family! Remember that the woman's home (maiden's house) is as big as the sky that day, so we must make arrangements! Why should the woman's house be as big as the sky? This is to show sincerity and reassure the woman's parents that their daughter will marry into your family! If you don't respect the woman's family, her family won't trust her daughter to marry you! Communicate with your parents more! The rules in the two places are different. Let's negotiate and synthesize! Rules are not dead, but negotiable. The family situation is different and the amount is different. I'm talking about the popularity of civil marriage.