You must need these in Tianmen. However, the man brought them before the wedding. Then on the wedding day, the woman's family will bring these "bride price" with your wife to your home, and families with better conditions will add more to your "bride price" and bring them to your home. There is no exact custom in Tianmen, but what I said above is that most habits are like this. Of course, there are exceptions to everything, but at least I have never seen how much money the man gave the woman's family, and then the woman's family didn't give it to the man's family when she got married. This, I have never seen. The upstairs also said that Tianmen people love face, you give the money to your wife, and then your wife takes it. Of course, the more money the better. The more money, the more face.

Anyway, I earned it when I got married, and my wife's family conditions are much better than mine. There are many "bride price" with her, all of which are subsidized by parents.

That's basically it. Bridal gifts and the like also depend on the family conditions of both parties. Anyway, in Tianmen, the vast majority, the vast majority, 99 out of 1000 won't eat your bride price and won't act like selling their daughters. If the woman's family takes your money and doesn't take it from your wife, it is very unreasonable in our local area now. Now there are only two ordinary families in 80 years. Parents want their children to live well and don't want their children's money. And if the woman leaves a bride price, it's hard to say.

I'm probably used to it. By the way, when you go to pick up your wife and go home, be sure to bring more cigarettes. When you meet people, you should give them a toast, whether they are guests or not. Basically, all your pockets should be filled with cigarettes.