1, the two sides sit down and have a good communication.
At this time, good communication is the key to solving the problem. Don't have mood swings. No one wants this marriage to end. The two sides can reach an agreement on current affairs and take a step back in terms of bride price and three gold medals. After all, we are all family, so there is no need to embarrass each other.
Speak your mind and let everyone know. If there is any dispute about the bride price and the three gold medals, you can put your own requirements on the table and study them together. If both sides meet this requirement, of course, it is the best result. If the woman is still not satisfied, she can take a step back. At this time, we must handle it well and don't bring problems into our marriage life.
3, consider the problem from the other's point of view.
People sometimes can't just consider their own feelings. Now that the two parties are married, their parents will become in-laws. Sometimes, we should consider each other's ability on some issues. If you only care about yourself and ignore each other's feelings, this relationship will not be happy. Therefore, when parents of both sides communicate. You need to put yourself in a man's shoes, so as not to hurt each other's feelings.
In fact, the bride price has become an indispensable thing in the wedding. Although the bride price is not necessary for the wedding, this marriage will not be happy without the bride price. Sometimes the bride price depends on the man's financial ability. Within the permitted scope, you can give more bride price. If your economic conditions are not good, you must do what you can.
I don't object to the bride price, but if the woman's lion opens her mouth and leaves no room for men, then the marriage is still not good. You can't get married just because you have to pay your debts all your life.