This custom originated in ancient times and is generally called "mothering in the province", which means going home to visit parents after marriage. It is a marriage custom of the Han nationality. That is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law goes back to her mother's house with the bride to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives. This is the last ceremony of the wedding. Daughters will never forget the kindness of their parents. The son-in-law thanked her parents-in-law and newlyweds for their love and beauty. Generally, the woman hosts a banquet, and the new son-in-law is seated, accompanied by the female elders. In-laws generally hold Chinese banquets to entertain their newly married husbands. This is the custom of Huimen banquet, which has existed since the Spring and Autumn Period and has been inherited by later generations. Because the "double door" is the double door of the newlyweds, it is called "double door", which means auspicious in pairs.

The bride's old man attaches great importance to going home for three days, so the groom should make preparations in advance, leaving a happy and beautiful impression on his parents-in-law both ideologically and as a gift.

Second, how to do a good job in the handover ceremony.

Strictly speaking, the banquet hosted by many people in the industry can't be called the back door thank-you banquet at all, but the wedding ceremony of the man's family. Visiting parents is the last chapter of traditional wedding in China. If it is really made, it will lose its true cultural connotation and significance as a "pro-welcoming" ceremony.

1, the banquet is the basic point. The "mothering ceremony" in ancient ceremonies is the last chapter of the whole wedding. If you can't even grasp these accurately, then this is definitely not an "authentic" back door banquet to thank the ceremony.

It is very important to highlight a theme of thanks when you return to the party. Who should I thank? How can I thank you? There must be a special ceremony to complete, the ceremony is a rule, the musical instrument is a performance, and it must be displayed through a certain ceremony. Chiefs should thank God, the ground, (three worships), then parents (three worships), guests (three worships), children and girls for the candy ceremony.

In the ceremony of returning to the door, a link must be designed. Return banquet generally refers to the banquet hosted by the bride after the man's family drinks the wedding banquet, which highlights the gratitude and reluctance between the bride and her parents.

A gift from the bride to her parents; Interaction between the groom and his parents-in-law.

My mother-in-law summed up several advantages of the groom and what her mother-in-law had to tell him. The groom made a promise, presented flowers to his parents and spread the expression of Weng Xu's friendship.

4. At the ceremony of returning to China, a link should be designed for the groom's official to give a thank-you speech and show his talents (this coincides with the praise given to officials by the trip to the motherland in the past). Finally, I would like to remind you that some links should not be arranged as much as possible: exchange tokens, propose a toast and pay tribute to the bride! Because exchanging tokens, drinking a glass of wine, and offering a gift can only be done once, which is a promise to the other party. A promise as good as a promise represents a lifetime, and there is no need to promise it again. Champagne ceremony represents celebration, cake ceremony represents exuberant fertility, and kiss represents intimate love; It can be reflected again in Huimen ceremony, but it is no longer the core structure of the ceremony department at Huimen banquet.

6. Huimen banquet focuses on happiness and reunion, and the whole ceremony should be reflected. There are more ethnic and folk things to show here, such as beating gongs and drums, dancing dragons and lions, and cultural performances can be interspersed in the wedding banquet.

7 Banquet layout should focus on luxury and celebration, such as bright red Shaman background lighting, exquisite crystal runway, bubble chasing machine and rainbow machine, lantern decoration and flower stacking, but try to give priority to red and pink, showing a luxurious style, except for some props that are too western-style. (wed 1 14 completed)

8. At the banquet, the bride can wear a red or purple evening dress or cheongsam instead of a wedding dress! The above is the guidance of Changsha sweet wedding planning for Changsha emcee and newlyweds. .