Don't say I hit you. Since you are a wife, not a wife, why can't you be free? Of course, there are dozens or even millions, but what about this? Life is your own, the key is to learn to balance yourself, there is no good or bad comparison.
But people around my hometown will spend 20,000-30,000 yuan (in rural areas) on marriage. After all, I still have three years to live, don't you think?