First, in big cities, it is understandable that many people have high incomes and large gifts.
We know that Shanghai is one of the best big cities, and many people will go to big cities to develop. That's because big cities not only have a good environment, but they will gain something if they are willing to work hard. In such a city, the monthly salary may be tens of thousands of yuan, which is unimaginable for many people in small cities. So it is understandable that the gift money is high.
Second, the wedding gift is the wish of the couple, and how much should be decided according to their actual situation.
When the couple get married, as their relatives, friends or colleagues, everyone will bless them, and everyone will get together to witness the wedding of the couple, hoping that they will get along well for a hundred years and grow old together. Nowadays, the amount of gifts in many places is getting higher and higher, which is a bit of a comparison. I think this trend is not good. We can prepare an appropriate gift according to our actual situation, whether it is more or less. It's our own will, so we'd better not follow suit. Only in this way can the newly married people be free from pressure, and those who wish them well can be free from pressure.
Third, the gift money is too high, which will increase the pressure on young people and is not worth promoting.
Nowadays, there is a custom in many places that when friends get married, even if they can't go to the scene to bless, they will send a gift. It seems that only in this way can we show the friendship between friends. Like a colleague going to a wedding. If everyone gives it to 500 yuan, they will feel embarrassed to give it to 200 yuan themselves. It is because of this embarrassment that everyone will be swollen and fat. Maybe my life is already very tight, I can't make ends meet, and I have to bite the bullet and give gifts. Therefore, if the number of gifts is appropriate, let young people not have any pressure, so that everyone can put their feelings on the main premise.