Getting married is a matter for two people, so you two must have an idea of how much you plan to spend on this wedding (not including the gift money, because you paid in advance, only this part). With this result, you can calculate how the wedding can be organized. On the premise of the basic amount, how many friends do you want to invite, where to put the wine, what kind of team do you want to plan, whether to rent a wedding dress or buy a wedding dress, how many sisters do you have, how many cars do you want to rent, and just share them according to your basic amount. Remember, marriage is the beginning of two people's future lives, and extravagance is not recommended, as long as both people feel that they are within the tolerance range.
Getting married is not entirely a matter for two people. Actively communicate with two families. When communicating at home, you must stick to the principle and tell them your bottom line. Whoever wants more scenery will pay the bill. Otherwise, two families sitting together are likely to be unhappy.
There is nothing wrong with a man's simplicity. For a happy life in the future, what is saved now is what is earned in the future. Women want to have face. Yes. It is also a good thing for relatives and friends to praise her more and earn more face for themselves and their families. So, no one is wrong. The key is that you need a United front and how to unify it. Please refer to point 1.2.