Whether in the past or now, whether it is an individual or a family, getting married and starting a family must be the brightest moment in our lives. Being able to help each other with the people we love and walk into the marriage hall hand in hand is a moment when countless people witness and bless the feelings of husband and wife.

Therefore, marriage is very picky, from the choice of date to the arrangement of marriage matters, from the reception of relatives to the wedding, all reveal the piety of a couple. Almost all couples are the most unforgettable on their wedding day. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. Are there any couples who have fallen out because of the wedding? The answer is yes, but it is not common. The following events are the most typical examples.

After the marriage, Mr. Yuan burst into tears. He told me that marriage should have been the happiest thing, but on his wedding day, his wife did a very stupid thing, which led to the marriage that had not yet started and came to the brink of divorce.

The root of this matter can be traced back to 24 years ago. Mr. Yuan was born in an ordinary family, and his parents gave birth to a daughter. The family has been looking forward to having a son. When my parents gave birth to a second child, I gave birth to a pair of twin sons. Mr. Yuan is my brother. Considering the family conditions at that time, his parents had to give him away. Now parents are Mr. Yuan's adoptive parents.

Regrettably, as a brother, Mr. Yuan lived in a happy and healthy family, while his younger brother died of a serious illness at the age of two.

Different thoughts lead to different fates of the two children. Mr. Yuan's parents love him very much and are not related by blood, but after more than 20 years of emotional cultivation, they have long been able to ignore these. He is very competitive. He never lets his family worry about going to school and going to work. After graduating from college, he was admitted to the civil service. Two years ago, he talked about a straightforward, generous and beautiful girlfriend.

Both parents are small businessmen, and they don't say a word to their son, Mr. Yuan, and they dare not mention it. They were afraid because their son's biological parents found them a few years ago. Every time they chat, their biological parents will cry to express their regret. Parents are afraid that they recognize their son, even if it is selfish, it is also selfish of love. After so many years of hard work, my son has made great achievements. Who wants to give up this relationship?

Soon, it broke out ...

The wife knows the life experience of her husband, Mr. Yuan. She feels that her biological parents and in-laws are very kind to him. Marriage is a happy event and the scene that parents want to see most, so she hopes that Mr. Yuan's biological parents can come to the wedding scene to witness their happy marriage.

"Husband, can you not be so stubborn? After all, they are also your parents. What's wrong with attending a wedding? " On the first day of marriage, my wife said to Mr. Yuan.

Mr. Yuan, who has always been fond of his wife, did not compromise on this matter and casually replied: "Don't worry, don't mention it."

On the wedding day, the wife kindly invited her husband's biological parents to the scene. The biological parents were in tears and were in rags. They want to give her a red envelope anyway, saying that the son and daughter-in-law must give gifts when they get married, and the wife's red envelope is very heavy, at least 30 thousand cash. What the wife cares about is not money, but the regrets and expectations of her biological parents, which makes her feel very guilty. Even if the husband has a grudge, who will abandon his own flesh and blood if his parents have to do so? Besides, after so many years, my husband should learn to let go and accept this fact.

During the wedding, my wife put in a sentence: "I invited my husband's biological parents. Whether you have any opinions or not, I hope that the children can be filial, and our husband and wife should also worship them. "

Mr. Yuan looked pale and said seriously, "Have you turned a deaf ear to my words? Who told you to invite them? I only recognize my parents in my life. You have to worship yourself, I won't! "

My biological parents understood Mr. Yuan's words, but they were afraid to go on stage while sitting under the stage. My wife is also chilling, and my husband is fine everywhere. Why does he just have a hard time on this issue? The wife is unwilling to give in. If her husband's biological parents never come to power, she will never worship both parents. Others kindly advised that it is not easy to have parents these years. Not to mention poor family conditions and poor parents' health. They ask Mr. Yuan's parents about him from time to time, and they never do anything excessive.

Think about it from another angle. Who can understand Mr. Yuan's pain? Seeing his wife's arrogance again and again, he stepped forward and shouted, "If you don't want to get married, get out."

Because of Mr. Yuan's feet, after the wedding, his parents-in-law took his wife to her mother's house. Because in their eyes, a sentient and righteous person would not treat his parents like this. Even if their parents made a big mistake, we repented for more than 20 years and suffered for more than 20 years. Don't we understand? Parents want their children to have a happy marriage, while biological parents just want to attend their son's wedding. What's wrong with that?

As a woman, I really don't understand why Mr. Yuan beat his wife like this. It's all wrong A man beat his wife at the wedding. Is this man still worth relying on? Understand that everything a wife does is because she has discovered a woman's inner conscience. If it is not love, if it is not this feeling, how can a wife repeatedly ask her husband to be kind to his biological parents? Maybe the way is wrong, maybe the occasion is not appropriate. Mr. Yuan's attitude shows that he doesn't care what his wife thinks.

Indulge in the past gains and losses blindly, why not try to let yourself go? Resentment is never the opposite of true love. Mr. Yuan's resentment just shows that he still has feelings for his biological parents. If he is tolerant and considerate enough, why not try to forgive his biological parents? Life is short, cherish the people around you, this is great love.

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