What the woman needs to prepare 1. The woman needs to prepare an engagement party, snacks, alcohol, tobacco and candy to entertain the man and his relatives and friends. You can do it at the woman's home or at the hotel.
2. Prepare gifts for the groom, including suits, ties, shoes, cuffs, belts and so on.
3. Buy some special products, fruits or other gifts as gifts for the man.
If both parties are introduced by the matchmaker, then both parties need to prepare a red envelope or gift for the matchmaker as a thank-you gift.
What should an engaged man prepare? 1, dowry
Bridal gifts include bride price and gift money, and the amount of bride price varies according to local customs and the economic situation of the man's family. The engagement money should be wrapped in a red envelope, no matter how much it costs per package, it must be even! Gifts are mainly local traditional engagement gifts, generally including chicken, duck, fish, tobacco, alcohol and candy.
2. Banquet ceremony
The engagement party is mainly held by the woman, but because it is for the man and his relatives and friends, in some areas, the man needs to roughly estimate the money of the engagement party and then give it to the woman in the form of a red envelope, which is called a banquet.
3. Matchmaker ceremony
If there is a matchmaker, don't forget to prepare a red envelope or gift for the matchmaker as a thank-you gift. The man usually gives the matchmaker more red envelopes than the woman, and then the amount can be discussed by both families.
4. jewelry
On the day of engagement, the man will give the engagement jewelry to the woman. Engagement jewelry usually contains three pieces of gold or hardware, including a gold necklace, gold earrings and gold rings, and bracelets and anklets are added to the hardware.
What should I pay attention to when holding an engagement party?
1. Determine the number and object of the banquet in advance.
The number of banquets and the target audience must be determined in advance. Only by determining the number of banquets can we determine how many banquets to prepare. Before engagement, determine the number and objects of the engaged parties. The engagement party is not as formal as the wedding. The people invited to the engagement party are mainly close relatives of both men and women, such as their parents, grandparents, grandparents, uncles and aunts, etc. Determine how many banquets to prepare according to the number of banquets.
2. Understand the local engagement ceremony customs.
The engagement customs in each region are different, some of which are relatively simple, and it ends when relatives and friends of both sides sit together for a meal. Some are more complicated, and there may be links such as ancestor worship and sweet tea. So be sure to inquire about the local engagement customs in advance to avoid making mistakes at the engagement party.