If the bride and groom don't make it clear that you can bring an extra guest to the wedding, they must have their own considerations. Maybe they want to control the scale of the wedding and invite only the closest relatives and friends; May be limited by the venue, can not arrange too many people to eat; It may also be because of budget considerations that it is impossible to receive extra guests. In any case, it is really impolite to bring such a "surprise" to the couple at the wedding.

You'd better do this: if it makes you uncomfortable to attend the wedding alone, you can ask the bride and groom if there are other guests to attend alone. A caring newcomer will understand your thoughts and help you arrange your seat next to another individual guest.

2 Social media can't stop

Guests are not paparazzi, so leave the bride and groom alone. Instead of sending photos of others everywhere without permission, it is better to enjoy the ceremonies carefully planned by the new people. There will be a professional photographer at the wedding, so you might as well save your energy and have a cocktail.

You'd better do this: you really don't want to miss this touching wedding. You can take some photos at the cocktail party at sunset, but at the wedding reception and ceremony, you'd better put away your mobile phone.

Make noise at the ceremony.

When the master of ceremonies (or priests) asked the groom "would you like to", the best man suddenly said "no, man"; Or a grandmother's figure chattering about her prejudice against the bride at the wedding scene ... what could be more disappointing?

It's best to do this: even if you have your own views on the marital feelings of the bride and groom, the wedding is definitely not the place where you can express it. Don't think about it afterwards, even if it is to save the bride/groom from the hot water.

Finger the wedding cake.

Believe it or not, some guests are just so annoying. It's not cute to fiddle with the wedding cake with your fingers. Apart from hygiene reasons, wedding cakes are expensive, and only three people have the right to handle them: the groom, the bride and the waiter.

It's best to do this: don't make a fool of yourself at other people's weddings. If you really can't control yourself when facing the cake, you'd better not go near it.

5 wear white to attend

No matter whether it is a hot summer day or that white vest skirt is the most beloved treasure in your closet, don't wear white at other people's weddings. Many brides want to be the only one wearing white in wedding photos. If you don't want to steal the bride's thunder, white is the least desirable dress color.

You'd better do this: bright colors such as pink, yellow and purple are good choices, and stay away from white or ivory dresses.

Step 6 exaggerate the wedding speech

Even if the groom gives you the microphone, it doesn't mean you have the right to expose the groom's college anecdote or the absurdity before marriage in public. A wedding is not an occasion to show your brotherhood by revealing the truth.

It's best to do this: don't avoid platitudes in wedding speeches. It's best to say some blessings that make everyone feel comfortable and leave those restricted contents to private people.

Flirting at the wedding

Indeed, at the wedding, you have the opportunity to meet a large number of single people, and the surrounding environment, lighting and food seem to be just right. The guests are all dressed up. But don't treat other people's weddings as your own. Flirting with the brothers and sisters of the bride or groom on the dance floor? This is not good.

It's best to do this: if you really meet the right person, you can politely ask the other person's phone number and meet later.

8 excessive drinking

Best friend's wedding is a wedding, not a fraternity. Getting drunk at a friend's wedding will not only make a fool of yourself, but also remind your brother's new wife of your character.

It's best to drink a lot and save it for the bachelor party.

9 dirty the bride's dress

That dazzling white wedding dress may cost the bride a lot of money. Even though she may never have a chance to wear this dress again, soiling the bride's wedding dress is still the most annoying wedding behavior.

It's best to do this: be careful when holding drinks near the bride. If you happen to have a glass of red wine or coke, put it down first.

10 indulge Xiong Haizi

You must have seen such a scene. Screaming children run around the wedding scene, or children in a bad mood cry when the bride and groom toast or even exchange vows. Don't let your children become nightmares of other people's weddings.

It is best to confirm in advance whether the wedding site will provide reception for the children, or simply leave the children at home.

1 1 harassing the waiter

It sounds really lame, but it does happen that guests force waiters to accompany them to the dance floor. Such a move is totally inappropriate. If the restaurant manager pulls you aside and complains that you are harassing the waiter, will you want to find a gap to drill down?

You'd better do this: leave the waiter alone.

12 Ask the DJ to change the music.

If it's your own wedding, you have the right to decide what music to play, but it's best not to tell others what to do in front of the wedding DJ.

You'd better do this: save it, unless the bride and groom specifically ask your opinion about the band or music.