Ask your husband, in order to give an explanation to an irrelevant person at the once-in-a-lifetime wedding, you have to grieve your wife. In the days to come, how many times and things do you have to wronged yourself and your family for the sake of others' face and irrelevant people? ! Are you going to live like this in the future? 1
Maybe he will be very unhappy and angry, but it should make you a different person.