Although there are 9 counties 1 districts in Zhumadian, the general similarity is: 1, the matchmaker or parents agree to get married; 2. pick up the car and send it; 3, three days back to the door (that is, after three days of marriage, I have to go back to my family, which is considered to be seeing my family); 4, wearing red and green, wedding dresses are also very fashionable now; 5. Shooting when getting married (Runan area); 6, sprinkle candy (Queshan area does not come loose); Gift package (red envelopes for drivers and fellow children). ……

The most effective way is to ask, order, keep it in mind and write it on paper through the matchmaker, parents or yourself.