201165438+1On the morning of October 5, Yan was busy receiving customers at a wedding company in Zhongshan Square, Hankou. Talking about life after marriage and having children, Yan said: "Having a family and having children has obviously increased the economic pressure." In order to earn money to support his family, he sometimes has to give priority to job opportunities between class and job opportunities. Since then, he has lost the after-school life that a college student should have, especially on most weekends, Yan is on his way to work. "I used to like playing table tennis and basketball. I have been married for more than a year. I have never touched a racket or been to the basketball court. " Yan said, "For me, there are two biggest economic pressures. One is tuition, one year 1 more than ten thousand; The second is the living expenses of his wife and children. "

From June 5438 to February 2009, he found a relatively fixed job in a wedding company, with a relatively fixed monthly income, reaching 3000 yuan at the highest, and the economic pressure was much less. Considering the living difficulties of the young couple, the company shared a small two-bedroom and one living room for the young couple in Hankou, and the young couple lived in a small bedroom with an area of less than 10 square meter.

In addition to this job, Yan also works part-time on weekends to earn some extra money. He often goes out to be a music producer at the wedding scene and earns 200 yuan in two hours. In order to relieve Yan's financial pressure, in September last year, his wife Mei sent her infant child to Yan's hometown in Xianning, so that her mother-in-law could take care of it temporarily and she could work as a waiter in a restaurant near her rented place. "What I think most about every day now is how to make money." Yan said.

After busy work, what Yan misses most is his precious daughter. He calls his mother at least three times a week to listen to her babbling. Every time he calls his mother and says, "Mom, I miss the baby." Mom will smile and say, "You are a child, and you know how to miss children."