It's the first time to share a rent with someone, and I have just arrived in a new working environment. The object of sharing is a sister my age and a girlfriend who knows her fellow villagers.
Since then, sharing has left a shadow on me.
The girl is a middle school teacher, teaching the first grade of junior high school. Complain about those children after work every day, be naughty and unruly, and even call names. I usually stay in my room when I come back from work and seldom talk to her.
The public living room and kitchen and bathroom are always in a mess. I really couldn't bear to clean it up twice, but it soon returned to its original state. The coffee table in the living room is soup after dinner, and the pool in the kitchen is used pots and pans. Fortunately, it was winter, and I just couldn't bear to look straight at it. I said it twice, but the other party still went its own way and ignored it directly.
After living for about half a month, the toilet is blocked and cannot be repaired. Later, a professional worker was found, and the solution was to find a neighbor downstairs to saw the pipe and take out the contents. It cost about two thousand yuan, and it turned out to be a sponge.
I was not at work at that time, and when I went back, I was accused that the sponge was mine and it was my responsibility. At that time, everyone laughed with anger and ended my short shared life.
Since then, I haven't shared a room with anyone.
Sharing means being under the same roof, doomed to compromise and understanding. Sharing with strangers is a very important thing. Different family environments have different life experiences. Because sharing lives under the same roof, it is inevitable that some people will encounter each other because of different living habits.
There is an impressive passage in the TV series "Beishangguang still believes in love". Zhang Kaiwen is the vice president of a well-known wedding company in Beijing. After years of hard work in Beijing, he still hasn't saved enough down payment for the house. His wife in his hometown called him one after another and said she wanted a divorce. Disturbed, Zhang Kaiwen returned to the house he shared. At this moment, he just wants to be quiet, but he doesn't want to eat and drink with a group of tattooed men living in the opposite room. The sound is very loud. The fidgety Zhang Kaiwen politely asked the other party to turn down the voice, and the other party replied that I was looking for trouble to hit you. Finally, Zhang Kaiwen, who couldn't bear it, found the other party's theory, was beaten black and blue, and dragged his suitcase to the company the next day.
My best friend is in Beijing, sharing a room with others. This two-bedroom house is divided into three rooms. The two rooms next door are young couples, who usually talk loudly and live frugally, and basically cook three meals a day at home.
Friends seldom communicate with their neighbors at ordinary times, but after all, they live in a house, and they don't look up and see, and they gradually get familiar with it. There are people who do IT and photography, and there are many interesting things in different industries. Chatting together occasionally becomes very interesting!
The most sad thing is the kitchen and bathroom used by San * *. Working hours are the same for everyone, so it is crowded at this time. Sometimes my stomach is uncomfortable, but there is someone in the bathroom, which makes me embarrassed!
Having an independent residence is a very desirable thing!
Prime-time dog blood dramas always seem to talk about love or not. The protagonists don't have to eat, but in real life, renting a house is no small matter!
The most important thing to share is the neighbors who live together, but you must choose them well, which is much easier than finding a job and dating!