In fact, in our rural hometown, the bride price is really not that important. How much to give depends on personal wishes, and there is no need to stipulate how much to give. So in our place, we don't break up because of the bride price, but many people are afraid to get married because of the high price. Shi, deputy to the National People's Congress and secretary of the Party branch of Dazhuang Village, hejian city, Hebei Province, is preparing a proposal to implement "low bride price" in rural areas. Some people say it is acceptable, others say it is unacceptable.
The high bride price has become a stumbling block for most people. From this perspective, the bride price is really a feudal bad habit, and it is really necessary to resist bad habits. If the bride price is reasonable, it is also a courtesy and respect. The original intention is to reduce the economic burden of newlyweds and families.
Actually, I used to think it didn't matter whether I wanted a bride price or not. As long as two people are really together and have more experience in the future, they will weigh the pros and cons when they get married, just like what parents say is a gift, mainly depending on each other's attitude.
If it were you, would you accept the bride price for nothing?