At this time, outsiders really know, and the authorities are fascinated. Obviously, it is the man who may have another object of love and has no choice but to escape marriage. At this time, the best way is not to let the family go to the man's house to make a scene, fight with the man, and feel that their girl has lost her job. It's that the two sides sit down and clarify the problem. You must be very angry with your family. At this time, you need to exercise restraint and remain calm. The best gesture is to roll with the punches, roll with the punches. It's not good for anyone to make a big scene, and it's even more harmful to the bride. It doesn't matter if you can't be in-laws, but what about the baby in the bride's belly? Better understand what his parents mean. If parents are very supportive of the bride, they may do their son's job well and make him change his mind, and the problem will be solved, at most, delaying the wedding.

On the contrary, the best way for a pregnant bride at this time should be to look at the length of pregnancy and try to abort the child if possible. It may be cruel, but it is much more important to the child's physical and mental health and happiness than a child born without a father or his love. It is extremely difficult for a single mother to take care of her children. It's not just physical suffering, children ask you to have a father: why should people have a father? Where did my father go? Then, this shadow may ruin the bride's life. Such children will also feel inferior, sensitive, unhappy and insecure. If you can't have an abortion when you are full-term, you can only wait until you have a baby.

On the other hand, this is a very irresponsible man who knows that you are pregnant, will get married tomorrow, and is still avoiding marriage. When you meet such an irresponsible man, you can only blame yourself for being blind and meeting the wrong person. On the other hand, if such a man gets married tomorrow, it is inevitable that he will get divorced the day after tomorrow, because his heart is filled with others, and the bride may not be happy with him. At present, the most important thing for the bride is to solve the baby in her belly. If she can get rid of it, she will never have anything to do with this man again. If not, negotiate an optimal solution. After all, the child is innocent.

In fact, everyone's life is not easy, and this blow must be long-lasting for the bride. A person's life is neither long nor short. Fortunately, you are still young, and you have plenty of time to get out of the shadows as soon as possible. In the days to come, learn to cherish, learn to forge ahead and be a strong person.

Author: Hao Ran Xin Zheng, official account of WeChat is a good mother, a good daughter and a good wife (ID: ghc2efdb631a15).