be engaged in
Hani children generally start to change clothes at the age of 15 or 16, which shows that they have changed from teenagers to young people, can choose their spouses and get married, and enjoy full social freedom. When each family builds a house, one or two small adobe houses or low huts are built in a big house. They are called public houses. Children usually move out of big houses. 15 and 16 years old, they spent the night in hotels, looking for partners and falling in love, but rarely courted the opposite sex in the same village.
Open love
The Hani people in Mojiang, Yunnan are doing it on the road. That is, young men and women who love each other ask for engagement, and both parents agree. In this case, they must pass the last hurdle, that is, walking on the road. The so-called walking on the road means that the elderly of both families agree to take a walk together at a certain time on a certain day. On the same road, if you don't meet widowers, widows, rabbits, birds, wolves and other animals and birds, it means that the marriage is auspicious and can be considered as a smooth pass.
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Bjor is another branch of Hani nationality, and the bride begins to cry three days before the wedding to say goodbye to her parents and other relatives. According to the traditional "crying wedding song", married people cry and sing at the same time. There is a long chapter about crying between mother and daughter. Mothers teach their daughters how to be daughters-in-law and honor their in-laws. When a girl gets married, her parents must accompany a pig as a gift for the bride and groom. At the wedding, committee of 100 saw each other off, felt and witnessed this happiness together, and the bride and groom also got hundreds of blessings.