Love the brain, you must change the love mode.

Losing love is not terrible. The terrible thing is that every time you fall in love, you have to change a love mode:

Before falling in love:

1, don't be too arrogant, know and verify each other's background, and don't rush to confirm the relationship without substantial contribution.

2, the rules before love: the circle of friends is open, will be reported when busy, and keep a distance from the opposite sex.

Don't believe the hypothetical zero-cost words such as "We will be together forever and how to get married in the future". This is just what he said to get you further. Don't be moved by cheap behaviors such as "ordering takeout". Being nice to you is the basic requirement.

4. When you get along, the other person does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, such as outrageous behavior, or you feel something is wrong. Don't make excuses for each other, trust your feelings and go quickly!

5, irritable, borrowing money, crying poor, disrespecting people, all bye.

6, don't be a virgin, sympathy will make you unhappy.

7, sweet mouth and hard mouth: language can be active, behavior can be passive and conservative.

8. Keep the mystery: Don't tell the whole story, gradually show your advantages and create surprises.

9. Create a sense of contrast: show a contrast that does not match your appearance, or the other person's lack of personality to make up for the vacancy of the other person.

When in love:

1, remain independent after confirming the relationship, do what you should do, don't lose yourself and your social circle because of each other, and don't stick together every day!

2, don't always think about whether you can get married in the future, and don't ask the other person hypothetical questions in the future to make the other person feel that you have taken care of you.

3, don't be afraid, no one can love others 100%, don't get angry because of small things.

4, don't nag, don't take yourself as a nanny, take care of three meals, and don't do what you think is good for him.

5. Don't ask everything to the end and ignore the bottom line.

6. Be as naive as possible, play the fool moderately, praise each other more, don't suppress and deny each other, give positive feedback and guide efforts.

7. Instill the other person to make him feel that he loves you more and more.

8. Don't break up easily unless you are serious. He can coax you once or twice, and if you get bored more often, it will come true.

9. You should have the confidence to leave at any time, and also have the capital to make the other party afraid to leave you. For example, beauty, knowledge, social contacts, work resources, gentleness, propriety, neatness, good cooking, getting along well with family and so on.

After the breakup:

1, it is clear that after breaking up, no small composition, no entanglement, no love, no drinking to find each other.

2. Empty everything in the other person's house, throw it away or mail it, and don't think about returning it in person.

3, pay is voluntary, don't care, don't calculate, don't be unwilling.

4, don't recall the good past, think about the pain that led to the breakup, he cheated, concealed, ignored, ignored ... Haven't you had enough?

5, you can cry when you are sad, but don't hold back the clouds, don't listen to bitter love songs, listen to sweet love songs.

6. Go out to play with friends. Both men and women have that kind of distracting group activities, and maybe they can find new people by the way.