I come from Du Yu. When we were young, we had a lot of marriage customs, but now they are almost assimilated. But it is very important to invite friends, relatives and the whole village (one in each family) to put on more than ten or twenty tables and pick up relatives in a fight. Some young people themselves say that it is simplified, but they should invite people to dinner and set a banquet, otherwise they will be looked down upon.

As for the bride price, it is generally 15000-20000, but it includes that the woman's parents will buy furniture and appliances and return them to the man (usually 1/3 to 1/4). It is said that the purpose of doing this is to worry that the woman will marry into the man's house and live a hard life without household appliances. However, it is easy for both families to talk about more rewards, but there are usually bride price, which looks very "expensive", otherwise it will make people feel that girls are "cheap".