Have a small family reunion or give a thoughtful gift:
1. The suggestion is to buy each parent a down jacket or a sweater with better warm-keeping effect when economic conditions permit. They wear it and keep it warm in their hearts. Moreover, such gifts are also for the health of parents. It is most meaningful to care about parents' health. I believe that they should be able to do these things at this time of golden wedding.
2. Parents should take care of their children after giving birth, serve them to eat and drink Lazar, and have no chance to have romantic time with their children like falling in love. So we can arrange a date for our parents on their wedding anniversary to let them relive their romantic and happy love. You can book a banquet in a high-end restaurant and let your parents have a romantic candlelight dinner.
3. The wedding gift for parents should be practical. Don't give some expensive and useless luxuries, the old people won't like them. You can give your parents something they usually like but are reluctant to buy, so they will be very moved and happy.
4. Commemorative album, covering up all the bits and pieces that parents have walked together over the years, and sealing the ups and downs they have walked through in a commemorative photo album with a commemorative album. Such a gift will be the most rare show of affection in the world, and I believe your parents will also regard it as a treasure!
5. You can also send some commemorative gifts, such as customized things, such as crystal music boxes, which can be engraved with parents' names, your blessing words to them, and you can also customize their wedding photos, which are very memorable and permanent.
6. Give parents a couple ring. Your parents can't have a romantic couple's ring promise when they get married. Since you are celebrating your parents' anniversary and you are the crystallization of their love, it is more memorable for you to send your parents a couple ring.
7. Creative photo decoration: Make a photo decoration with the photos taken by parents when they were young, or take a family photo on the anniversary, give them a special anniversary and leave a beautiful commemoration for their parents' 25th anniversary. The blessing gift prepared by the daughter is the warmest.
8. Ornaments for growing old together, wedding anniversary gifts, cashmere sweaters made of gold and gold foil, meaning harmony and long-term, because it is an anniversary gift you gave your parents, which is more memorable. I hope parents will always be sweet and happy.
How should I tell my parents that I want to get married?
This kind of problem is also common in life and among friends around.
When you get married, tell your parents directly, and don't get married until you are old. Parents should agree. Then you also raised the question of the time of marriage. The sooner the better. If my parents agree, it goes without saying that I am pregnant, and I will talk about it after I get married. If your parents have to postpone the wedding for a long time, there is no choice but to tell the truth. You'd better let your boyfriend accompany you when you say it. The premise is to let the boyfriend get the recognition and love of his parents, which is necessary in normal times, such as calling and saying hello as usual and buying some gifts. Of course, your parents are angry.
Will you be happy to get married for your parents?
It's not that you don't listen to your parents, but how you listen. Not all of them should be heard. As the saying goes, "Only the feet know whether the shoes fit." Your happiness depends on yourself, and your life is for yourself, not for others. Your parents won't be with you forever. They are only temporary, but the person who loves you or the person you love is not necessarily your other half. Don't be confused, believe in yourself, believe in him or her, and believe in your love, then you will be happy.
May all lovers get married.
4. What should I do if my parents have problems with their marriage?
I think your parents are also middle-aged, and the marriage crisis is likely to happen at this age.
Reason 1: I finally sent my children to college. I can breathe a sigh of relief. It's time to look back on my life, so
You will see each other's shortcomings. Your mother is excellent and capable, while your father doesn't take care of the family.
Reason 2: at this time, knowing someone who can appreciate and appreciate your mother, your mother will inevitably have that kind of excitement and
Be lucky, because your father probably seldom praises and praises your mother, and naturally her mother will think so.
Men are good, in fact, especially in line with women's hearts.
Reason 3: Maybe your parents are a little helpless at ordinary times, but they haven't reached the point of divorce and met that man.
This is an opportunity for divorce.
Solution: 1. After all, you are a complete family. As a child, you should have a deep talk with your parents and show your attitude. Just for your happiness, let them not divorce, calm down and think about it. Is it really necessary to divorce? Is there any saving?
Two: Tell your mother in the conversation that middle-aged women have lost their beauty, but their abilities have almost been used. Carefully analyze what that man likes about you. If he also has divorced families and children, how will you get along in the future? Don't be fooled by a man's sweet words or two. Your mother should have passed this age long ago. Be careful not to trust a person easily. After all, the original couple is.
Tell your father that if you want this home, you must love your woman quickly. From the slightest concern, your father just has poor family values, but in fact, your mother also has the responsibility to communicate with each other and open her heart. Your father didn't have an affair. Wait. If your mother sees your father's changes, such as caring about your mother's cold and warm health, cooking for her, accompanying her shopping and exercising, she often praises her at your dinner table.
Finally, as an adult, if it is irreparable, you should respect your parents' decision.
But I sincerely hope that your family will not be separated, and I hope that you will try your best to talk to your parents! Hope to succeed!
5. How to deal with strong parents in the face of marriage
Most modern cities are only children.
Marriage is the union of two families.
Narrator: Ye Xiaogan is a 35-year-old bank clerk.
My husband and I are both only children. Our parents have been with us since childhood, and they will take care of us personally in big and small matters. This love didn't stop with our marriage.
My parents used to be executives of state-owned enterprises, and even now they are retired, their retirement salary is still very high. Although the husband's family is from the city, it is just an ordinary family, and the family is not rich. Therefore, the two families often have conflicts because of some money-related things.
When I first got married, my parents strongly disagreed. My husband's family is very satisfied with me. The mother-in-law took her husband to the house to intercede. I didn't expect to be scolded by my mother. Since then, the elderly on both sides have complained. Even after we got married successfully, our relationship has been very stiff.
My husband and I both know that our parents are good for us and hope that we can live a better life, but we are often caught between them and are embarrassed. The results of the senior high school entrance examination will come out soon. I hope my son can successfully enter a key middle school, and we are all happy.
Who should I go back to when I get married?
Narrator: Zhang Jialin started selling at the age of 30.
We are just two strangers in this familiar city. In college, we came here from different cities, met in the same school, knew each other, fell in love, and finally came together. Because we are only children, our parents want us to settle in their city. Unfortunately, one is in Guizhou and the other is in Hebei, and no one will compromise.
I have discussed this matter with my wife many times, but every time she resolutely opposes it. I am the only one in our family, and I am going back to Guizhou. So are our parents. Before, we considered choosing my wife or my city to settle down, and then the other party took their parents to live together, but our parents insisted that the other city was not easy to live in, and no one would settle.
Therefore, we finally had to choose to stay in Wuhan, although it has been almost half a year since we got the license, and we still don't have our own house. When we got married, in order to take care of the feelings of the elderly on both sides, we hosted banquets on both sides, but we could not settle in two cities at the same time.
At present, parents are not old. In addition to the annual Chinese New Year holiday, my parents will rush to let us pass. It's generally ok, but it's difficult to wait a few years. I hope I can buy a house as soon as possible, make a splash in this city, and then I can live in this city with my parents.
Let's live our lives.
Narrator: Li, 28, is a teacher.
After marriage, my mother-in-law asked us to have dinner with them, and we paid 700 yuan for meals every month. Many colleagues envy us that we have ready-made meals when we come home from work every day, but I don't think so. My mother-in-law is not very good at cooking and lives frugally. She eats those dishes all year round. She likes to put the leftovers in the refrigerator and eat them the next day. My husband feels sorry for his parents. My husband and I are generally responsible for eating those leftovers.
After giving birth to the baby, my husband and I discussed that we should stop eating with our in-laws and cook at home by ourselves, but my husband didn't agree. Two days ago, my mother-in-law took her daughter to the park to play, put her child on a stone bench and watched others dance by herself. Later, her daughter fell from it and cut her hand. After I took my daughter to the hospital for dressing, I insisted on taking her to my mother. My mother has always wanted to take care of her granddaughter. She is a retired teacher. I'm relieved to give her the baby.
At present, parents are not old. In addition to the annual Chinese New Year holiday, my parents will rush to let us pass. It's generally ok, but it's difficult to wait a few years. I hope I can buy a house as soon as possible, make a splash in this city, and then I can live in this city with my parents. (Editor: Tan Mingxing)