1, "A few years ago, because the blind date was messed up, several relatives involved turned their faces." Because there are contradictions among your family members, it means that you are the cause of the contradiction (no matter who is right or wrong), and it is reasonable to go because you have to tie the bell.

2. "They didn't come to get married, and no one in the hospital called for blood transfusion. The child is one year old, and no one calls at the full moon, and no one asks about having a baby. The former is because the latter is a result, and it will happen naturally if it is not solved. The result doesn't explain how they treated you, and it can't be reversed. Otherwise, complaining to each other will lead to a vicious circle and contradictions will become deeper and deeper.

3. Grandma tells you that grandma wants you to go back, which means grandma misses you; Don't you miss grandma? For the sake of family, we should also go.

4. Mother's family (not only parents, but also uncles and cousins, etc. ) is a woman's back garden and a refuge when she is sad. This is a good opportunity to resolve the conflict. Isn't it a pity not to take it?

You might as well call your cousin first, say hello and care about it, and then express your intention to go.