It is normal for ordinary people to hold a banquet because of reciprocity, but our big family will eat there from the day the old man died, so the food is different from others.
I remember that the old man died in the morning. All of us, a big family, will help, and then the caterer will bring a table, a chair and a chef. Tidy up the tables and chairs, set up the tent and start making breakfast. But when I was called to dinner by my mother, I expected something, because, alas, there was a big meal in the morning. Then I found myself thinking too much when I passed by. It's a pot of soup made of a large pot of cabbage, tofu and very fat pork. Everyone holds a stainless steel Kazuhiro Mori bowl and eats it with our baking brand. When you finish that big bowl, you will be full.
This is really the most wonderful thing I have ever seen. Only cabbage, tofu and fat pork. The first day and the next morning are the same. At noon, those relatives came and we had to help with the work. In the evening, this is a normal party. On the third day, it was cabbage, tofu and fat pork. The key is that according to the rules, your whole family can't go home for dinner yet, so I ate pork with cabbage and tofu for three days.