You don't need to give them a red envelope when you meet your parents for the first time. You should bring some gifts, such as wine, cigarettes and milk. If you want to get engaged, you have to give them engagement money. The amount of this money depends on the requirements of the woman's family, usually tens of thousands of eight thousand. I think I need an engagement ring. It is necessary for Sanjin to get married. The specific bride price depends on the amount of the woman's family and their market. Yaodu district is not very big, but it is everywhere.