Money is a gift from relatives and friends, and it is also a cultural derivative of reciprocity. Maybe your parents or you have given gifts before, or maybe your relatives and friends will get married and have children soon, and the money will definitely be paid back in different ways.

So no matter how much the whole wedding costs, the money is collected by yourself. The man's parents accept the relationship between the man's parents and the woman's parents accept the relationship between the woman's parents; The money given by the couple's friends and relatives can be kept by themselves.

Generally, there will be a sign-in area at weddings. It is suggested to find someone to write down the gift list in the sign-in area of the wedding, and make a record of the name, amount and identity of the guests who gave red envelopes, so as to trace the source of the money for reference when returning gifts in the future.

If your wedding doesn't have a sign-in area, red envelopes will be given at the wedding reception, and you can also let the best man and bridesmaid remember the red envelopes they received.

Whoever pays the full amount will get it.

Of course, nowadays, getting married is really not a small sum. Banquets, wedding dresses, weddings, department stores and other things all cost money. Especially for banquets, if you think about it for more than a dozen tables, you will know that it is an expensive expense.

Therefore, in many cases, the money may be used to pay the final payment of the wedding banquet or wedding. If both parents contribute to the banquet, the total cost of the wedding will be deducted from the money received, and the remaining families can negotiate to distribute the remaining gifts.

3. Give money to children.

Of course, for families who are not poor in money, all the money collected from the wedding can be given to the couple as the start-up funds after marriage.

Near, can be used as a couple honeymoon trip; Far away can be used as an education fund for future babies or a reserve fund in the family.

If it is not urgent, you can deposit it in the bank or buy wealth management products. Not only can you make money, but you can also help newcomers plan their expenses reasonably.

Generally speaking, parents who are willing to give all the money collected at the wedding to the couple will explain it to the couple in advance to avoid unnecessary misunderstanding.