In the third season of Chinese Restaurant, Andy declined to be Shen's maid of honor, saying that he was afraid of not getting married. Is there a necessary connection between being a bridesmaid and not getting married? I think being a bridesmaid has nothing to do with not getting married. It is said that you can't get married if you are a bridesmaid for more than three times. In fact, the number of times is not the reason why she can't get married, but it just reflects that she is not married yet.

The reason why bridesmaids can't get married after being married for three times is that in ancient China, bridesmaids were considered to have the function of exorcising evil spirits for the bride, that is, bridesmaids could block various obstacles for the bride and ensure the bride's smooth marriage. Of course, "blocking evil spirit" needs to consume the luck and marriage of bridesmaids.

In addition, bridesmaids have been bridesmaids many times, and may have seen various contradictions and disputes between the bride and groom during the preparation and marriage, and the groom may not necessarily understand. This leads bridesmaids to have higher requirements for their other half or fear of marriage after reading it. Therefore, after many times, it is difficult for bridesmaids to get married as soon as possible.

Let's popularize the concept first In traditional western weddings, bridesmaids exist to prevent the devil from taking the bride away, so they wear dresses similar to the bride to confuse their vision. But there is no question of whether you are single, not to mention that if you are too single, you can't get married.

At a wedding I know, three close married couples were invited to be their groomsmen and bridesmaids. Some even invite pregnant expectant mothers to be bridesmaids. Therefore, in my opinion, there is only one criterion for bridesmaids to choose, and they must be the best friends. The one who can cry and laugh with you at the wedding is the best candidate! Being invited to be a bridesmaid many times can only show that you are very popular with your friends and trustworthy, so don't worry about those inexplicable statements.

It's just a traditional saying that you can't be a bridesmaid three times. Just have fun, don't take it seriously. Now many wedding companies also provide bridesmaid rental business. People who are engaged in professional bridesmaids have to be bridesmaids hundreds of times in their lives, and they may not necessarily die alone. Whether you can meet the right feelings and whether your marriage can be happy depends on your own business. There are many other factors besides these two, so don't keep an unmarried pot as a bridesmaid.

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