In the small restaurant next to the wedding garden, I made an appointment for a dinner, just five people, Deng, Lao Li, Kong, Yi Ge and me.

I ordered a few dishes casually and a few bottles of 323, and everyone chatted while drinking.

Three, two, three is white wine. Brother Yi drank a little and poured a small glass.

I have no capacity for alcohol, only buckwheat tea.

Our circle of friends are all old colleagues who have worked hard in a trench for 20 years. They are well versed in the roots, not picky and not disgusted.

Halfway through the meal, I found no appetizers. Da Deng waved, "Waiter, add some pepper to stir-fry the meat."

After eating, the plate bottomed out again, and the little hole turned around and shouted, "waiter, add a leafy vegetable, any green leaf will do."

Pepper fried meat and green leafy vegetables are home-cooked dishes, and there is no way to upgrade them. If you invite important guests, you generally dare not make such a fuss and lose face.

Fortunately, we are friends in the same circle, and everyone is similar, so adding Chili to stir-fry meat can be so arrogant and there is no sense of disobedience.

I quite like the phrase "It doesn't matter what you eat, but who you eat with."

With such a circle of friends, not to mention eating Chili fried meat, eating green leafy vegetables, flying Maotai with bald rice noodles is also very suitable, comfortable and cozy.

The best state between friends is to stay together without pressure.

A friend of mine who has known us for many years often asks us to go downstairs. "Are you in the office? Shall we go out for dinner later? "

Most of the time, it's just the two of us It's also a small restaurant, home cooking and ordinary wine. As usual, I only drink tea and often raise my glasses.

I have never asked my friend how much money he has. Anyway, I know that he is the richest of my familiar friends, and our friends have less money than him.

But he is not picky, picky and disgusted, sitting in a small restaurant and rambling with me.

"No sense of superiority, moderate relaxation, friends can sit side by side." A true good friend has nothing to do with money.

I used to have a group of friends, seven or eight people, who often got together. After a meal, it doesn't cost much and everyone can afford it. Then I don't know who it is, and suddenly I am overweight. After spending thousands of dollars on a meal, the people behind are rising and showing off their wealth, which is out of control.

It took me several years to remember that my friends never got together again, as if they had disappeared.

"What you call paying is a burden to others, a burden." After a long time, I feel weak and the distance is far away.

You must make good friends when enjoying flowers, climbing mountains, boating, waiting for snow, and catching wine. Only when you gain recognition among groups with similar levels and views will you feel happy.

Well, this feeling is very important.