1. Love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families.

It is sweet to see too much love, but in the end, it is defeated by parents' various bargaining.

Parents always want their children to get more attention.

In the eyes of many parents, their daughters and sons can't be wronged a little, but son-in-law and daughter-in-law should be tolerant in all aspects, otherwise they will disrespect their elders, be unfilial and have no tutor.

Never know what tolerance and empathy are.

Whether to hold a wedding or not is actually a matter of face and form, and has nothing to do with anything else.

But most people have no choice and cannot understand this truth. They must do this, or they will lose face. They must do it well, or they will lose face. But in fact, happiness has nothing to do with it.

People who get married may not really love each other, or they may be forced to.

For example, parents' "persecution", social persecution, age persecution, and even their own persecution.

There is nothing wrong with marriage itself. If there is any problem, it's all about money.

Life before marriage is just life, and life after marriage is rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, not children, so problems and quarrels will follow.

6. After the whole wedding, the biggest gain may be the word "tired".

Because you greet everyone, you should smile at what you know and don't know, what you are familiar with and unfamiliar with, what you like and don't like.

7. I always hope that my children will be tolerated and understood by others' children. Children who completely ignore others are also children. They want to be tolerated and understood.