This happened in Tongren, Guizhou. On June 27th, 20021year, the video of two women getting married in Tongren, Guizhou Province was also widely circulated on the Internet, which caused a heated discussion among many netizens. According to informed sources, it was because the groom was arrested by the police the day before the wedding, and the groom was arrested because the groom Huang was suspected of theft in wenxi county, Yuncheng City, Shanxi Province, and was finally arrested at home. After being arrested, the man was also taken away directly by the Shanxi police. According to the situation reflected by parents of both men and women, in fact, the relationship between boys and girls is very good, so boys are suspected of stealing, but girls still hope that Huang Can will improve in the future. So, the girl expressed her willingness to finish the wedding with the boy as scheduled, but by this time the groom had been taken away by the police, so both parents made a decision to let Huang's sister marry instead of Huang.
After this incident was magnified, it also caused a heated discussion. Many people disapprove of this practice. Most people think that it is actually harmful to let their sisters marry the bride instead of themselves. Later, after this incident was fermented, it also attracted the attention of relevant local departments. Subsequently, the public micro-signal of the people's government of Banchang Town, Yanhe Tujia Autonomous County, Guizhou Province was also notified, indicating that the incident was indeed true after investigation. Later, in order to avoid the recurrence of such incidents, the local authorities carried out publicity and education activities in the whole town to establish a new style of civilization. The purpose of this activity is to establish a good new style of marriage and childbearing, which can effectively promote the change of customs.
Of course, for most of the older generation, it seems that there is nothing wrong with letting your sister marry the bride instead of your brother. This may be a common thing in feudal society, but what I want to say is that it is 2 1 century. We have entered a modern civilized society, and we should abandon these bad habits as soon as possible. From a modern point of view, marriage itself is a matter for two people, and no one or anything can make any decision for these two people. So I think even if the bride and groom have a very good relationship, we should wait until the groom comes out before deciding whether to continue the wedding. No one else can get involved.