Some people say that the rain on the wedding day is a symbol of good luck, because it represents that heaven cries for the bride, and the bride will never cry again in this life, and she will be happy; Some say that it rained on the wedding day, which means that the groom married a charming wife (watering his wife); Others said that it rained on the wedding day, indicating that the daughter-in-law who got married in the door was fierce and it was great to get married. Others think that the rain on the wedding day is a good sign of getting rich. Of course, there are also some sayings that it is unlucky to rain on the wedding day, and the couple will always encounter some bad things in the future.

Many traditional newlyweds and their families are extremely entangled in the rain on this wedding day, so let's see what folklore experts say.

Experts pointed out that what is the most important thing in the traditional culture of the Chinese nation? Harmony between man and nature? That is, man and nature live in harmony. For example, when the weather is sunny, people will be in a good mood, and when the weather is gloomy, people will be in a bad mood. This concept has psychologically influenced marriage. So all kinds of statements are circulated among the people.

For example, it is windy on the wedding day, which means that the mother-in-law is fierce. This probably comes from? Crazy mother-in-law should make a statement; And as the saying goes? Married girl, splashing water? And because it was raining when we got married, everyone understood it as? Is this water splashed badly? , so there is? Daughter-in-law? Statement; Also, if the sunshine is strong on the wedding day, there will be? Father-in-law is fierce? This may come from the statement? Grandpa Sun? Statement.

Conclusion: Experts pointed out that these discussions about whether it is good or bad to rain on the wedding day are actually mostly human psychological effects and have no scientific reason. It's a natural law, and no one can change it. Daughter-in-law's personality is related to nature and acquired experience; The future marriage prospect depends on the joint operation of husband and wife, and has nothing to do with the weather on the wedding day. I suggest you treat it with a normal heart and don't let the weather affect your mood.

Second, what should I do if I get married in rainy days?

1, have a good mood

Getting married is a happy event, but if it rains, most newcomers will not be happy and will be upset. Rain on the wedding day will definitely bring a lot of trouble, and it may even affect the whole wedding process.

Coping tactics: At this time, newcomers must adjust their emotions, make psychological preparations in advance, and keep themselves calm and in a good mood. Think of it as rain, which helps me to increase the aesthetic feeling and romantic atmosphere. At this time, there is no other way but to calm down. It is always bad not to get married. In the morning, the atmosphere should be more playful, so that everyone will be happier. Here I wish the new people to walk through the ups and downs of life hand in hand.

2. Wedding car and safety

Because rain will affect the line of sight, and it is easy to slip and cause traffic jams or accidents. Therefore, it is necessary to remind the relevant staff (such as makeup artists, photographers and cameramen) to leave early and be careful. Especially the groom must go out to meet the bride in advance in the morning, so as not to delay the auspicious time.

Many newcomers like convertibles very much, and they also plan to use convertibles as their main vehicles. Although the weather at 5438+0 1 in June will blow people's faces, I still hope to use my favorite convertible. But if it rains, don't even think about it. Although some people say that the top can be put away, I think the convertible with the top put away is really ugly. We should change our minds early and discuss the style of the wedding car again. The groom should be a handsome guy that day, not a driver. Moreover, considering that the weather is really cold in June165438+1October, the convertible will go directly without worrying about when it won't rain.

Now we should also pay attention to the fact that floats are best decorated with flowers, and they look good when it rains. Don't use lace and doll pictures, it will be ugly if you get wet. ....

You will be caught in the rain when you go out, and you can't take an umbrella.

It is estimated that going out in rainy days is the most feared thing. You can't open an umbrella on the wedding day, because the homonym is unlucky-umbrella = scattered. Although I personally think it's nothing, I still don't want to use an umbrella if both elders are taboo. I saw someone say that you can use a blue umbrella, which makes it difficult to leave. However, personally, I think it is always inconvenient to bring an umbrella. For example, when the bride is carried out, it is very troublesome to bring an umbrella.

At this time, no matter whether anyone at home is afraid of umbrellas, it is best not to use umbrellas or blue umbrellas. This is a matter of different opinions, so forget it. I'm going to buy a pile of disposable raincoats, and anyone who helps during the day will give one. It's better to wear this way, which is both convenient and meaningful.

Firecrackers are easy to get wet and not easy to ignite.

When you go out in the morning, set off firecrackers. Some people will scatter a piece of firecrackers on the ground and extend all the way to the car. It has been playing, firecrackers are ringing, and newcomers follow. It is also a very festive picture. But if it rains that day, firecrackers will get wet and it is impossible to open the way with firecrackers. It can be said that the feeling of the festival will be lacking.

There are two ways to do this. One is to continue to use firecrackers, but not put them out in advance, and put them under the eaves of the residential building crossing. There is another way, that is, a few years before school, when the management of firecrackers is the strictest, step on balloons. However, because the ground is dirty in rainy days, I'm going to tie balloons from Loudaokou to the main door. There are many places to tie balloons in the alley, and then I will puncture the balloons all the way.

5, the face is easy to get wet by makeup.

If it rains heavily on the wedding day and your face is stained with rain, it is very likely that you will casually wipe the level. In fact, it is nothing, but the makeup on the wedding day may be ruined. I believe this is absolutely unbearable for every bride. Such an important day must be beautiful.

Coping tactics: To solve this problem, we need to rely on the constant attention and reminder of bridesmaids and makeup artists. So it's best to use waterproof cosmetics. Once water is found, it is best to absorb it with a paper towel in time, and then make up your makeup quickly. And remember not to rub your eyes with your hands. I have such a bad habit.

6. The wedding dress during the day is easy to get dirty and makes you embarrassed.

No matter how to avoid rain during the day, it is estimated that it is difficult to ensure the cleanliness of the ground. Attend a friend's wedding, even if two people compete with her for a skirt, the skirt is still dirty, until the upper part of the skirt is dirty, it is still a little dirty. The bride's legs are also muddy, which makes the whole person very sloppy. This is what the bride is most worried about.

Prepare Hanfu that is more convenient to move when you go out in the morning. In fact, it is more important to keep warm when the temperature is low in rainy days. Secondly, the hem of Hanfu is not so long, so it is more convenient to move, and it is not afraid of the skirt hanging on the ground and getting dirty. The natural image is more dignified.

7. Wedding dress

The bride and groom will greet the guests and see them off. When it rains, the temperature is bound to plummet. You can add a cute little shawl or coat outside the bride's wedding dress, which is cute and dignified. The most important thing is to keep warm. You're busy this day, and it's over if you get sick. Attention should also be paid to the cleaning of wedding dresses. Most wedding dresses are rented to photo studios. If they get dirty in the rain, it will cost a lot of money to clean them. Therefore, the bride might as well be romantic, let her husband hold her in the rain and get married. Nobody blames you for the sweetness in Xiu Xiu.

Although we can't control the weather, getting married is a happy thing, but we must not affect ourselves because of the rain. Get ready. I believe we will have a perfect wedding!

8. You can't shoot from this position.

It can be said that this is basically a must-have item on the wedding day. Not only the newcomers themselves, but also the helpful friends are looking forward to the location shooting. If it rains on the wedding day, the location may not come out. It may be better to face a little light rain, but if it is heavy rain, you really have to give up the position you are looking forward to. It can be said that it will become a regret.

Coping strategy: Although it is not necessary to shoot on location, I still hope to shoot a little. Therefore, even in case of heavy rain, we can choose a place where we can take photos from the rain, such as the pavilions and pavilions of the Ming Palace Museum, such as the long cloister in the nearby park, and the subway station is also a good shooting place. Worst of all, we can go to the hotel and take some photos in the hotel room.

If you insist on location shooting, you may have to shoot a different feeling. But after filming, be sure to put on clean clothes and drink a cup of ginger soup to prevent colds. Newcomers who don't insist on location shooting can also take this opportunity to have a good rest and prepare dinner with a better mental outlook.

9. The problem of guests being late

It can be said that it is a common problem for guests to be late at wedding banquets, but it is usually individual people who are late. But if it rains, it will be late on a large scale. This will not only prolong our welcome time, but also estimate that the first guests will have to wait for a long time.

You can advance the time on the invitation slightly, so that everyone can come earlier. If it really rains that day, you can also say hello to relatives and friends of the two families at the wedding banquet and lunch in the morning, so that everyone can go to the hotel earlier in the evening.

10, prepare umbrellas and plastic bags.

It doesn't matter if it rains, but if you get off at home or go to a hotel, you must cover it with an umbrella. Since it's raining, let's be romantic. Prepare more special umbrellas for the wedding, just like the transparent one, which is both romantic and rain-proof. The umbrella should be big enough to spread the dress and shoes and protect the bride. Don't be too messy, especially don't take a black umbrella.

Third, matters needing attention on the wedding day of the couple

1, requirements for flowers

For the newlyweds who got married in May, June, July, September and June, 65438+ 10, because of the hot weather, the floats, hand-held flowers and corsage tied at noon usually fade in less than a few hours, so when getting married in hot weather, we must consider this problem when choosing flower patterns. Tulips are not suitable. In addition, let the family prepare an empty bottle, punch a few holes in the bottle cap, or use a special watering can to sprinkle water on the shower regularly. In addition, the groom's corsage must be backed up. It is often found that because of holding the bride for a long time, at the beginning of the ceremony, the groom's corsage is three-point, which greatly affects the effect.

The other is the problem of petals scattered. Almost all the garbage prepared by the wedding company will be thrown in the flower shop, which is unlucky! Therefore, it is best to have a handful of roses before the wedding, which are in bloom, so as to ensure the quality and quantity, and there are flowers as a backup. Where there are deficiencies, they can be made up in time. Prepare more, sprinkle one or two hearts with petals on the wedding bed, which is much better than the bubbles all over the bed!

2. Bride makeup and wedding car

The schedule of the wedding day is very tight, and there is no room for delay. However, there are two aspects that are prone to some problems, that is, the makeup given during wedding photography and the method of tying floats, especially on a good wedding day. It is often encountered that because there are many people, when it is your turn, it will be much later than originally expected, which will eventually affect all the processes behind. So we should make two preparations in advance. First, communicate with the original halfway makeup artist. It's best to reserve time for you before 12. Once there is a problem with the wedding photo studio, it will turn to the whole process halfway. Second, most wedding companies don't provide floats. In fact, it is also subcontracted to some small flower shops, which is more prone to the previous problems. So be sure to make it clear to the wedding company that the time to pick up the wedding car must have been tied with the float. If not, specify the latest time of tying floating and the liability for breach of contract once it is exceeded in the contract. If you tie your own floats, it is recommended to play more in advance to avoid accidents, especially when the days are particularly good.

3. Custody of the goods on the same day

It is important to keep things safe, but many newlyweds forget this detail. The worst thing is that before the wedding, I couldn't find the ring, so I had to borrow it from others, which made the bride sad all the time and the atmosphere was gone. In fact, I brought everything, because it was put together with other things, and when there were too many things, they were mixed together. And prepare your own champagne and the most inconspicuous props and matches. Therefore, it is suggested that newcomers must have someone in charge of the ring. Prepare a list of things in advance. When you arrive at the hotel, ask the responsible relatives and friends to check it again and indicate the location, so as to avoid making mistakes and being too late.

The other most important thing is the red envelope. Without a few, you will feel uncomfortable, especially when there are many people and several couples are held at the same time. But it is actually quite difficult to keep the bag, because the bride, the best man, the bridesmaid and both parents will appear at the wedding, so the best keeper is a trusted relative, who is required to keep an eye on it all the time. If the hotel room provides a safe (it is recommended to ask for it when arranging the hotel room in advance), lock it when changing the first suit. If you don't provide it, you can only watch it. It is suggested that it is best not to spend the night in the hotel, and let parents bring it back carefully in advance.

Fourth, about diet.

(A) the bride and groom's diet

I have asked many new couples, and the first feeling after the wedding is that they are tired and hungry in bed (of course, the happiest thing is that two people count red envelopes in bed after taking a shower), but careless parents always prepare wedding cakes for the new couple. Think carefully, who can eat such sticky and sweet things when he is tired, thirsty or even drunk? Therefore, combined with the opinions of many newcomers, the best thing at that time was instant noodles. Of course, parents can also prepare some cakes at the banquet, which is much more delicious than cakes. But don't forget to prepare mineral water and other drinks for the couple. Remember to be hungry and don't forget to be thirsty!

(B) the best time to eat before the wedding

The bride and maid of honor are the hungriest people on the wedding day. After putting on makeup, they can hardly eat or even drink more water. Therefore, it is suggested that the couple prepare some cakes and drinks they like in advance (not too sticky) and put them on the wedding car when they leave the wedding room. The only time to eat in a day is on the way to the hotel after the location shooting, which basically doesn't affect the shooting and doesn't have to worry about makeup, so that the bride and groom and bridesmaids can fill their stomachs!

(3) Nutrition

Verb (abbreviation of verb) Precautions for setting off firecrackers

Weddings should be more creative, so it is suggested that couples can make some improvements in some traditional ceremonies to enhance the atmosphere of the wedding. For example, setting off firecrackers, why not make two or four strings (one long string is enough) of small firecrackers and big firecrackers into one or two hearts? When setting off firecrackers, it will be much better to set them off from both sides of the heart and the heart at the same time.

1, physical strength

On the wedding day, the time from dressing up to entertaining guests ranges from five or six hours to more than ten hours. In this long day, many times, newcomers have to walk around in high spirits and greet each other. This is a test of their physical strength. Therefore, you should be especially kind to yourself and don't give up every opportunity to sit down or be quiet. Even in the interval of toasting, you can hide in the dressing room and drink a glass of water, and take 10 minutes to rest your strength before coming out.

2. Attitude towards guests

If you suddenly feel completely blank when you step into the wedding venue, it's no big deal. It doesn't matter if you forget everything else, just remember one thing and always smile. Of course, on such a big day, newcomers usually naturally show joy. However, some newcomers will subconsciously show a dull expression when they are nervous, and even worry. If you think you are usually a person who is good at putting a smile on your face, you must work hard on your wedding day. Keep smiling, reassure your lover, reassure your parents and make your guests happy. Slowly, you will forget your nervousness and really enjoy this wonderful moment.

Step 3 communicate with elders

Although most other things in the wedding are undertaken by others, there is one thing that newlyweds must do well by themselves, and that is to fully show respect for their elders at the wedding. In the process of toasting, don't rush past the tables of grandparents and other old people like dragonflies. Slow down and spend a few minutes communicating with them. When they came in, they stepped forward quickly. When they leave early, interrupt your toast and personally send them out of the banquet hall. Wedding occasions are the embodiment of family traditions and values, and it is the duty of the younger generation to respect the elderly and love the young.

4, grasp the toast time

In the process of toasting other guests, we should pay attention to the distribution of time and the mastery of rhythm. Don't rush by in a perfunctory way, and don't stay too long. Show due courtesy to all guests at each table, which is especially important at weddings with many wedding tables. Otherwise, by the time you get to the last table, many guests may have finished eating and left.

Sixth, with your lover

(1) Caring for each other

Who is the most important person to you at the wedding? Your partner and lover, of course. In the hustle and bustle and confusion, don't just pay attention to others and ignore him (her) around you. After all, this wedding belongs to you. Always remind yourself to hold the other person's hand and see how his (her) state is. On this day, fully express your love and concern for each other. Don't neglect to smile at your partner just because you are tired, praise the performance of the other person that day, and care whether the other person is tired. On the wedding day, you all worked hard, so let the passionate love between you draw a perfect ending for this day.

(2) Cherish memories

On this day, give full play to every sense, physical examination every process and moment. You know, after the noise of this day, you will recall it in countless days to come. In order to cherish every detail of this day, let a part of myself free from the cold and hospitality, and quietly taste everything around me.