Fear of marriage, a man, is a common problem of modern urban white-collar workers. Fear of the dull life after marriage and the responsibilities they should bear after marriage are the most critical factors that they dare not enter the marriage hall.

Marriage has different meanings for men and women. For women, marriage is a bet of life. Whether her future life is good or bad depends on whether the marriage she chose is correct. For men, marriage is a responsibility, and he is responsible for the happiness of women and the growth of future children. It is for this reason that there are many "leftover men and women" in this society. The leftover woman hasn't found a bet partner yet, and the leftover man doesn't have the courage to take that responsibility.

Life pressure and work pressure are great.

Now life is under great pressure and consumption level is high. Wage income is tight for one person, and all kinds of consumption are unbearable. Not to mention the cost of getting married. The work pressure is getting bigger and bigger. With the increase of work and pressure, men are overwhelmed. I often work overtime, so it is difficult to spend time with my family on holidays. If you get married, the pressure will be even greater. There is not only the pressure of work, but also the pressure of family.

High house price

It is inevitable to get married and buy a house. How to get married without a house, where to live after marriage, and where to live with children. The house is just needed. But the house price is so high, how can ordinary office workers afford it? If you don't rely on your parents, it is very difficult to make a down payment. The house is too high to buy a house or pay a down payment. This will lead to the man's fear of marriage.

The cost of raising children is high.

Raising a child is expensive, and everything costs money. Children's education costs a lot of money. All these give men a headache and make men fear marriage.

Generally speaking, fear of marriage is the norm. Men are afraid of getting married, which will lead to greater pressure in life and work. High housing prices and unaffordability are also important reasons for fear of marriage. The cost of raising children is so high that men are afraid to get married.

Afraid of losing freedom

Love is not bound, and two people still have their own lives. Once in marriage, children, house, parents and other problems bound him and lost his freedom.

Afraid of change

Two people have been together for so long and so well, can sudden changes lead to the loss of anything? This idea makes men feel insecure. Love is different from marriage. If a man wants to get married, you should give him enough psychological preparation.

When entering marriage, men need to change a lot, so if a man hasn't decided on the date of marriage, he won't dare to get married easily. Although it is said that women spend a little more money when they get married, men have to accept great changes after they get married. Even a boy who likes to play must try to be a family-oriented man. It's not easy to skip grades like that. If you already want to marry him, I suggest you let him prepare for marriage slowly and don't push him too hard, otherwise he won't fully devote himself to the role of husband after marriage.