Besides, getting married is really a big expense. Actually, this is negotiable. You can invite him to the teahouse at a suitable time and tell him. Before that, you may all have a little wedding panic, so your's emotions are all wrong. But your feelings and recognition for him are still the same. You also cherish getting married, but all you want is a simple thing. You are willing to take on everything with him after the wedding, no matter what, but for now, I hope to relieve the pressure. In fact, this will make you and even his parents less stressed. Everyone will finish your wedding happily and earn some other money slowly. After all, I can't eat a big fat man.